Relationship Advice Thread

It sounds as though you are going to need to get over her somehow. You can't date someone else because you'd be thinking about her too. What Mafoofoo said is probably true, you don't want to ruin what you have with her as a friend. But it might be worth it to just tell her how you feel. If it works out between you two then great! If it doesn't.... well you won't have to worry about thinking about her when you are in a relationship with someone else.

Mine is I just realized yesterday that I really like someone. But they don't notice me and they live in another country. But we are casual friends. I just don't know how to become more noticable to them and stand out from all the other people that like the person as well.. ;(

Originally Posted by NintendoGuy7

Mine is I just realized yesterday that I really like someone. But they don't notice me and they live in another country. But we are casual friends. I just don't know how to become more noticable to them and stand out from all the other people that like the person as well.. ;(

Did you guys meet over the internet?

I find myself questioning alot of things in my relationship lately.

Originally Posted by Flex Buffchest

Did you guys meet over the internet?

yea. We did. On Facebook.

I would love to date, but I am so damn picky. Every guy I've dated were cheaters, abusers and ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥s so now I have a mindset that every guy is bad and no one can convince me otherwise.
When I DO like a guy, I find something I don't like about him, and I dump him off the face of the earth. I don't care if he's nice, I tell him to ♥♥♥♥ off and take the hint if he keeps talking to me.
I hate it when guys say "you're just playing hard to get, it's sooo cute" when it's not like that. I seriously have a phobia of bonding with men or something.

That post was the most contradictory thing I've read this side of the Mississippi.

Wha? Mine? haha.

Yep. You're saying one thing but then saying something that totally contradicts the first thing. Also you even wrote the solution to your problem in your post. lol

yeah... you're right. LOL. I am my own therapist. :>

Pretty much yeah.

It's still a problem though. Being single and indecisive is lonesome! ;o

Mmm not really. Being single is pretty awesome and a ton of fun. More fun than being chained down that's for sure. Give it time you'll see the light.

Originally Posted by Mafoofoo

Mmm not really. Being single is pretty awesome and a ton of fun. More fun than being chained down that's for sure. Give it time you'll see the light.

True yet at the same time, alot of singles do get the feeling of loneliness from time to time. It happens.

Myself nor anyone I know have experienced these so called "feelings of loneliness" that you're talking about.

Obviously it means you don't know how to be single.

Originally Posted by Mafoofoo

Myself nor anyone I know have experienced these so called "feelings of loneliness" that you're talking about.

Obviously it means you don't know how to be single.

Didn't know there was a specific method on "how to be single". Its not that easy for some people. Its not that cut and dry.

Doesn't matter to me, I'm still young and don't really have a reason to worry about it yet.

It's really only a two step process:

Step 1. Be awesome
Step 2. Refer to Step 1


Boom. Donezo.

Originally Posted by Mafoofoo

It's really only a two step process:

Step 1. Be awesome
Step 2. Refer to Step 1


Boom. Donezo.

Heh, yea sure.

Yet everyone's different and its not that simple for some others as it may be for you.

Then maybe they should start being awesome.

Originally Posted by Mafoofoo

Then maybe they should start being awesome.

I agree, yet I also iterate that for some its easier said than done.