where to start...

I have an idea and there are a few places were I could start.

1. the day Nieda was born also the day her father (Domrik) was castrated by Gusto 2 completely different events, but both important to things to come

2. the day Gusto and Domrik decided to wed their children

3. the day Haradin was born MAJOR plot dev going on here cannot skip this day

the first draft started when Haradin was born, but I found it lost fluidity having to go back and explain these events so I was leaning toward starting it off when Nieda was born, but I'm torn, the arranged marriage is a great scene and a good place to start, then Haradin's birth I started there before I don't think it was a good place to start though with all the back tracking I had to do, which do you think?