How do you...

... get out of touble. It's like the teachers hate me I get in trouble for everything. Me and 2 other people ripped up a book and I was absent the next day so the bus driver asked who did it and since I was gone everyone said I did it then my retarted principal went to investigate on the other 2 people doing it well one moved and the other (my so called friend) said he didn't do it. So now I have to spend money that I could spend on my wii.
Also I got ISS today because in the bus a girl made fun of me because I was short so I started making fun of her, well I got in trouble. Her friend went to my retarded principal and said I was using profane language. Then I got ISS. All I said was the B word once when she said it herself. I quote her "I know I'm evil and I know I'm a *****" All I said was geez what did you have for breakfast this morning carnation-instant *****.

First of all, you shouldn't be ripping books apart. Consequences are inevitable. Paying for that book only serves you right for the act you have done. Secondly, best way to get out of trouble.. well. Just don't get in trouble. Behave.

Don't feel bad, I would have done the smae thing, and with my luck would have gotten the same punishment. Just try to keep a streak of good behavior and things will look up.

I meant how do you stay out of trouble. But yeah I'm just sayin sure I deserved A consiquence but not the consiquence that THEY should be sharing. Seriously that's the only "friend" I have that would lie like that all the others would say yeah I did it.

Staying out of trouble? Well that's obvious, behave. But if you wan't an alternative to taking out stress, Take up a hobby. Reading or models. I dunno, just some examples. Find whatever suits you best. You'll get more out of it than calling people names, even though it seems fun, shich I admit is, but isn't productive, and is wrong.

Originally Posted by Linkriepw

... get out of touble. It's like the teachers hate me I get in trouble for everything. Me and 2 other people ripped up a book and I was absent the next day so the bus driver asked who did it and since I was gone everyone said I did it then my retarted principal went to investigate on the other 2 people doing it well one moved and the other (my so called friend) said he didn't do it. So now I have to spend money that I could spend on my wii.
Also I got ISS today because in the bus a girl made fun of me because I was short so I started making fun of her, well I got in trouble. Her friend went to my retarded principal and said I was using profane language. Then I got ISS. All I said was the B word once when she said it herself. I quote her "I know I'm evil and I know I'm a *****" All I said was geez what did you have for breakfast this morning carnation-instant *****.

Sometimes the friends you have can be a bad influence on you. Were these two other people your friends? Did you rip up a book just because they were doing it? You have to constantly ask yourself "Should I really be doing this?". I'm not saying stop being friends with them (it wouldn't hurt considering the reputation you're giving your teachers/principal), I'm just saying, think twice, act once.

As for profane language, it may take some practice, but stop saying them, it can be a nasty habbit, especially when you're angry. I'm no angel, I swear too but in moderation and with appropriate company/in appropriate places.

The B-word is a derogitory remark towards women. Just like the N-word is a derogitory remark towards Africans. If you aren't part of that race/sex, best not to those kind of remarks.

-BGS

There's a very simple answer to this: don't get in trouble in the first place.
Trust me, it works.

But I get in trouble for stuff I don't even do. Today I got in trouble again and he said I heard you were making fun of Nicole again. I WANTED TO SMACK HIM AND WHOEVER LIED! I didn't do it again, I did it the first time and that was it. Why would any 8th grader have the stupidity to do it again it's like there's my friends the ones who think I'm cool because of my size and then everyone else hates me. I can't comprehend why someone would lie just to get me in trouble. I leave everyone alone unless they make me mad first. Seriously I don't have a problem with profane language I only swear when I'm angry, and quite frankly I was angry when I got in trouble for that again because someone wants to lie. Last year I got wrote up twice for running in the hall once. I ran in the hall and got written up then one hour later I got written up again like I did it twice when I only did it once and only one was my friend and no I didn't do it because they were. I don't know why I did but probably because I was angry about something and took it out on the book.

Me in trouble? Never!

If you get in trouble for doing stuff you didn't do, talk to your parents or teachers.
And also, if you find yourself getting angry, let yourself calm down and find something (a hobby, sport, etc) that helps you do this.

Originally Posted by Linkriepw

But I get in trouble for stuff I don't even do.

When you've got these types of situation, as shadowthief mentioned, your best choice would be to talk to a trusted adult about it. (A parent, for example)
Most often than not they'll try their best to help you out.

Originally Posted by Linkriepw

Today I got in trouble again and he said I heard you were making fun of Nicole again. I WANTED TO SMACK HIM AND WHOEVER LIED! I didn't do it again, I did it the first time and that was it. Why would any 8th grader have the stupidity to do it again it's like there's my friends the ones who think I'm cool because of my size and then everyone else hates me. I can't comprehend why someone would lie just to get me in trouble. I leave everyone alone unless they make me mad first. Seriously I don't have a problem with profane language I only swear when I'm angry, and quite frankly I was angry when I got in trouble for that again because someone wants to lie. Last year I got wrote up twice for running in the hall once. I ran in the hall and got written up then one hour later I got written up again like I did it twice when I only did it once and only one was my friend and no I didn't do it because they were. I don't know why I did but probably because I was angry about something and took it out on the book.

It seems as if you've got somewhat of a bad record already (getting written up last year for running in the halls), although that may not seem that bad.
Believe it or not, simple things like that follow you, and when the principal was informed about you 'making fun of' this girl, he was ready to believe it.

Thing is, school's just a minor part of your life. Things like this will pass, and you won't even remember. It's better to keep your cool until it's over. :]

Like so many have suggested, get a hobby for when you're angry. Writing works great.

Originally Posted by Linkriepw

... get out of touble. It's like the teachers hate me I get in trouble for everything. Me and 2 other people ripped up a book and I was absent the next day so the bus driver asked who did it and since I was gone everyone said I did it then my retarted principal went to investigate on the other 2 people doing it well one moved and the other (my so called friend) said he didn't do it. So now I have to spend money that I could spend on my wii.
Also I got ISS today because in the bus a girl made fun of me because I was short so I started making fun of her, well I got in trouble. Her friend went to my retarded principal and said I was using profane language. Then I got ISS. All I said was the B word once when she said it herself. I quote her "I know I'm evil and I know I'm a *****" All I said was geez what did you have for breakfast this morning carnation-instant *****.

I would refuse to pay, until they actualy can prove it was me... Or force my friend to pay some of it.

Also if your going to insult someone make sure you dont use profane language... Try and get a bigger vocabulary and insult them using big words.

Oh and... get a tape recorder and tape everything they say. Then maybe you will get lucky and get something really good. Then its payback. Now you can either go to your principal and get them in trouble... or try and blackmail them... but to blackmail you need to make sure the info is worth it.

Or get a lawyer and sue the school for harrasment. Claiming they are giving you punishments for something you didn't do or have proof you did and are going on the word of some person.

Of course... that would cost money and I am not even sure you could do that. but I think it would be hillarious.


Anyways...

Take the advice of the others who posted before me.

Well I'm still in trouble he calls me down like every day asking the same question
"Well I'm tired of having this book here do you have anyone who might have witniced these other people doing it as well?" AS IF ANYONE HAS WITNICES OF ME DOING IT! Sure I did it and just because I'm man enough to admit it I have to pay. NO! It's not like he's gonna bust into my house and take the money. I'm not paying until those 2 pay as well. My Wii is too important to waste money on.

Well why should we tell someone how to get out of troble when it looks like you make alot of it yourself. Please correct me if I am wrong.

Originally Posted by evesaakela

Well why should we tell someone how to get out of troble when it looks like you make alot of it yourself. Please correct me if I am wrong.

Actually, some of the things he's gotten in trouble for he's been falsely accused...so how would he be causing the trouble? o_O It is possible that bullies would target him.

*Ahem*

Next time someone accuses you of something you did not do, simply ignore it, however mad you get. Maybe, if they are bullies after all (which seems like a high possibility right now) they'll stop once they see no reaction coming from you.

Originally Posted by Lady Luck

Actually, some of the things he's gotten in trouble for he's been falsely accused...so how would he be causing the trouble? o_O It is possible that bullies would target him.

*Ahem*

Next time someone accuses you of something you did not do, simply ignore it, however mad you get. Maybe, if they are bullies after all (which seems like a high possibility right now) they'll stop once they see no reaction coming from you.

You are right.:embrsd: