Sorry, man. I really don't know what to do to help you. I'm having troubles with my DSi, myself -- it's suddenly decided that it can't connect to the internet
at all, and it can't even detect unsecured connections that I know are there.
I've heard it said that the wireless capabilities in them kinda fail after a few years thanks to planned obsolesence, so I'm a little nervous that mine's never going to be able to connect again due to something failing/breaking down/just plain breaking/whatever.
So much for filling up my Pokedex.
Though, now that I think about it, I seem to recall hearing that though the games themselves won't connect with WPA security, the DSi itself is actually perfectly capable of connecting to WPA security. The games just don't have support to connect, and need WEP or nothing... but I guess that doesn't help you very much, other than to confirm that your wireless capabilities still work, period. Well, I hope somebody can help you fix your problem, anyway! I'm sorry I couldn't offer you anything useful...