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Originally Posted by Aziel Satori This topic has begun to look more like people trying to justify their behavior. |
When this topic started, you said that I obviously couldn't have had any experience with this in relation to "flesh and blood", and that instead I could only have gotten my information from "internet statistics" and "dusty books". And now, after my last post, I'm suddenly using this thread to justify all of the horrible traumas I've committed and all those poor families (and kitties!) that I've eaten while I was on all those crazy devil drugs?
:/ Seriously, can you please stop throwing absurd and repeatedly contradictory ad hominems out there and instead focus on the discussion at hand?
Really, there are so many times I can explain the fact that "it's not the drug use that cause stress, it's the person's own grief that causes the stress".
Let's take me as an example.
If I was doing drugs and I showed no effects to anyone in the world and nobody knew I was doing it, would anyone be stressed? No.
If I was doing drugs and I showed adverse personal effects and everyone in the world knew I was doing it, would everyone be stressed? Most certainly not.
If I was doing drugs and I showed adverse personal effects and everyone in the world knew I was doing it, would some people be stressed? Possibly.
Stress requires two things - it requires a "stressor" (something that traditionally is thought to create stress), and it requires a "stress reaction" (an increase in adrenaline within a person to the point that it causes them to mentally become distressed).
Any sort of change at all can be considered a stressor, and any sort of mental change as a result of a stressor is a stress reaction. None of these things are inherently good or bad, and each person has their own individual reactions to varyingly strong stressors.
There are two sorts of drug users - one type is the functional/casual user. These people are the sort of people who have a day free to spend as they please and decide to spend it with a joint for themselves or an eightball with friends or whatever else they please. These people's actions do not adversely affect anyone around them, either directly or indirectly. If a person decides to spend half a day reading a new book they got, they will not cause any reasonable person stress. In the same way, a relatively small amount of money spent on drugs that are done privately and do not affect anyone else can not cause a person stress unless they have an irrational hatred/taboo against said drug use.
The other sort of drug user is the non-functional user/addict. This is the sort of person who will take the money that they were supposed to save up for something and spend it. This is, of course, a gradual slope by nature. Does it cause a reasonable person serious stress if a person spends that $20 they had on the desk for the next time the ice cream man came by on a few grams of pot?
One can assume that drug abuse that leads to a serious depreciation in quality of life will cause stress in a reasonable person, but this stress isn't caused by the drug abuse at all, but merely by its indirect results. If a person is a billionaire, no amount of drugs that they could use would ever affect their financial situation, and if a person is a lovebunny when they're high and a total jerk when they're sober then the drugs certainly won't indirectly affect any person's emotional well-being.
It's a matter of relatives and subjectivity. Drugs themselves do not cause any of these adverse reactions, but obsession over anything can. If you're going to criticize drug users for letting themselves sometimes obsess over getting that next high, you might as well have the same loathing for the kid who spends a lot of time playing video games and gets a B in that class he's taking instead of the A he could have gotten without them.
This is, of course, even assuming that a person reacts in the way that our stereotypical "reasonable person" does. And not everybody does. I've met people who have had three member of their family die in a week and who have shrugged it off as just "something that happens". Some people call those sort of people
kick back, some call them
zen, some are
chill, and some of them are
crazy. While you might be the sort of person who lets people's every little actions and decisions affect them mentally, there are a lot of people who aren't. :3