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Originally Posted by Skootle ^ first time I saw porn I was shocked. |
to a kid, porn looks like a scary wrestling match. it IS confusing for a child to withness sex with no knowledge of it. it's weird and gross to them, and actually, one time, my ex (when he was little) heard his parents having sex and went in the room and asked "why is mommy crying?"
so yes, a kid could be confused about sex and when you allow a kid to figure stuff out for themselves, sometimed\s they an come up with a harmless explanation or rationalizatiion, other times, they may just be scared or disturbed. especially if they come to assume the type of sex they see in porn is how all sex is. they'd grow up with that mentality, and it's possible that they may never be taught otherwise.
anyhoo- I've defended my poition on porn, although it's off topic...
but I've already stated my opinion on gays and gay marriage.
I think it's not fair that 2 people who happen to be of the opposite sex can be able to get health benefits and tax breaks, but if 2 people of the same sex, who love each other just as much and have the same level of devotion to each other and want to build a life together, they have to try to get by the harder and more expensive way.
EXAMPLE:
say a married woman's husband gets prostate cancer and the husband is covered by the woman's health insurance. they can get better/cheaper treatment and support. But if a man in a gay couple gets cancer, he can't get benefits through his partner's insurance (although SOME insurance companies DO have domestic partner benefits, many don't). they have to bankrupt themselves to get treatment and they suffer more because financial hardship often can take a toll on one's overall happiness and drains one's sense of hope, and maybe the man even suffers and/or dies due to lack of proper coverage.
both scenarios involve a pair of loving, devoted partners, but one couple has to suffer more because the government wants to impose the opinion of the moral majority on them. how is that fair?