I am going to mount the soap box for a brief few moments and make a tiny suggestion/observation that’s directed out of love and respect for my fellow SD’ers. Please bear with me and kindly do not lynch me after the fact. Much obliged.
Look, I like to heckle US Republicans as much as everybody else. Hell, I live in the backhills of Tennessee. I
live with these people. However, I find that only makes the Romney, Reagan, or fundamentalist joke even more enjoyable. Given all this, while I do enjoy the sport, when I see comments like:
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if you don't "believe" in evolution or global warming then, I'm sorry to say, you're just ignorant.
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…it makes me wonder if these sorts of comments might be part of a cycle of insanity, ignorance, or weirdness--especially since I’ve observed many similar comments here as well as in other threads.* I mean, how constructive of a conversation do you expect to have with an individual when you start out characterizing them as some combination of crazy, ignorant, or weird? As it is, most people tend to harden their positions in the midst of being challenged anyway, and I tend to think that if you allege that somebody is crazy then it gives them very little incentive to try to disprove that theory. People tend to rise to the occasion for good and for ill.
I mean, I know that I was fairly conservative when I was probably 12 or 13. Fortunately, the forum I was attending at that point humored my transitory flirtation with the right and treated
me with respect even though my ideas probably did not deserve to be. I don’t know precisely what I would have done if they had dismissed me as weird or ignorant (and indeed, I have no desire to shoot myself up with the hormones I had at that age to roleplay), but I tend to think I would have been a bit vexed--and furthermore I probably would have ceased taking the speaker credibly no matter whether the ideas were valid or not.
My point is merely that the more you start calling somebody crazy, weird, or ignorant, they will probably stop listening--and any opportunity to have a meaningful exchange of ideas sans ego and sans butt hurt has been lost.
Now if you disagree with all this and think I’m being unreasonable, that’s perfectly
fine. I merely ask that everyone (including myself) consider this. If you’re the sort that likes coming into these threads to achieve intellectual ascendancy with a few well aimed broadsides, then this will probably be shrug worthy. This isn’t me saying you shouldn’t express these type of opinions, but it is me asking to consider what you want to achieve in a discussion like this and think about the practical repercussions of what you say. It’s about tone, not substance. I’m sorry if this offends any of you, and I’ll skedaddle for now and might come back to express my political views a bit later.
*I do hope this doesn’t seem like it came out of the blue, but I’ve been pondering on this subject for quite some time.