I just want to explain that the Family thing that me, Cortana, and Nesi are a part of is simply just a group thing for friends of Cortana, Nesi, and Dread. When I mentioned you, I was not suggesting you be a part of it (so no ego-boosting for you, missy!), I was just saying that Sturs would have preferred you over Shetani. We all knew you wouldn't have accepted, and neither of us actually wanted to invite you. While I don't believe any of us particularly dislike you (can't speak for Nesi and Cortana, though), we have no real love for you (though I do like your choices in Flannery and Sarah Chalke. Those 2 are both pretty awesome). Just wanted to clarify that, because it appears Nesi is not one to think before speaking, which is what led to the whole conflict in the first place.
