*sigh* Hey man. Some might argue that it isn't my place, but I think some people have made it clear that they'd rather not associate with you. It can become really suffocating when someone is being so overbearing.
I think it would be good to let this ZD deal go, and just focus on being a productive member on
ZU. I recommend the General Chit Chat, though I think you've already found Serious Discussion. I saw some topics you made earlier.
Just try to keep things toned down a lil with the messaging.