I can't say that I've seen your post. I'm not the best at checking that thread regularly.
And it's going to take a while to build trust before I'd personally give out the IP, partially because right now it seems you only want to be liked so you'll gain access to the server. If you truly want to be trusted, try to sincerely get accepted on the forums. Sign up for the clan test as soon as you're able, maybe visit the Escapist Haven if you have a thing for writing and want to RP with some people. There is a niche for a wide range of groups on ZU, it's not too hard to find your own after testing some of the waters.