Oh don't worry, I'm a very patient person (been waiting for Lady for over a month, and am only now beginning to feel a little antsy). So take your time ^^.
Also, from a psych battle perspective, consider Em already badly damaged. He has given up on himself and his ideals, and in a rather twisted since, the Fair One is actually trying to help him out of there.
I got this psych battle idea from an Exalted campaign I was in for a while. My GM said it's usually a g good idea to start off a little broken so you and your opponent have something to work off of, ^^; but I may have taken it a bit far.