No, I'm saying that VEY was, at times, sounding like she was trying to slap you in the face.
You have been improving, since the Art Contest incident, though. I saw that you went to Meljay (brokenjoker) for help, recently, which was a very mature move on your part. Like Vey recently said, you just have to step back a bit, when you feel the urge to say something back to someone. You have to think "can this cause an argument".
In the event of that Art Contest incident, what I think you SHOULD have said when you saw that your suggestion was starting to backlash would be something along the lines of this "it appears that my suggestion is being taken the wrong way. I apologize for any drama this may have caused and I will kindly back away from this. I did not mean to offend anyone and, if I did, then I apologize."
Now, I see that, a lot of the time, people say mean things about you because of how you often get into these arguments. Now, personally, I know that a lot of this is due to people instigating stuff with you, knowing how you have a tendency to get "passive aggressive", in which you lash out once someone seems to be attacking you. However, in the cases of the Art Contest thing and the fan fiction thing, I DO believe that you could have been much more civil about it.
Would you be willing to promise me one thing? It could prove beneficial to your future reputation here, on
ZU.