I feel like the entire romance aspect of Mass Effect has been written by someone who is a 'virgin and has only read about romance and sex in fan fiction and trashy novels'. There are some warm and tender moments in there of course that make you feel fuzzy inside, but I had to avert my eyes whenever a sex scene happened in any of the Mass Effect games. Super awkward.
The sex scene you see if you romance Liara in Mass Effect 1, I feel, further solidifies the statement I quoted from eribear. Upon talking to her, you're informed that she's a virgin, and she's never been with anyone ever, not even making out! I gotta say that this is certainly not portrayed in that sex scene. The first time you have sex with someone (at least it was that way for me and a lot of other people I have spoken to) is never that erotic, haha. It's got fan service written all over it!
I really liked the romance of Tali Zorah however. As far as I can tell it's a big deal for her to take off her suit, so just kissing her is a big health risk - so all of that was tied into the Tali romance, which I really enjoyed. It made sense to just only have 'make out' scenes with Tali if you romanced her, because that makes sense and seems logical to me. REALISTIC.
BUTTTTT YEAH.
I definitely can't shake the vibe that some of the writers of Mass Effect lived out their romantic fantasies through the romance scenes in these games.
