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I hate my physical self with a deep fiery passion.

I'm not too ugly... but there are a ton of other things I hate about my body.

Originally Posted by Bassoonist

I hate my physical self with a deep fiery passion.

I'm not too ugly... but there are a ton of other things I hate about my body.

Your username is Bassoonist. Therefore, you are attractive.

I don't know. I don't think I'm a goddess or anything. But I also don't think I'm ugly.

Originally Posted by zoltar1994

Im pretty ugly just look at my profile picture.

What the hell are you talking about? You look fine to me. Plus you can barely see you in that picture... Unless you are being sarcastic lol

I think many people are too harsh on themselves.

I used to hate being skinny and tall, but now I've come to appreciate my figure. The last time I was critical of my appearance was when some little punk said I had no muscle. I then knocked his lights out with a single punch.

Other than a bit of a belly thanks to too much beer, I am utterly content with my physical appearance. It's never been something I worried about. Whether or not I am considered attractive has proven to be quite inconsequential.

I really, really think that I am an unattractive, awkward looking man.Though I'm always told that I look good. It just never seems genuine. Maybe it's because I was very hard on the eyes for most of my life and very recently grew out of it, and my insecurities haven't caught up with that yet.

I don't give a flying damn about my appearance (to a reasonable extent).
I have no idea how I look to other people; no one's brought it up before, and I don't care.

@ Andy: I don't think you are unattractive or awkward looking at all.

@ Tonchiki: That is actually a good way to think ^^ It shouldn't matter really.

Well, see, I'm not begging for sympathy. I'm just kind of a person and I exist. Looks have never meant a damned thing to me. Everything I do exists on a plane of reality outside of one that looks matter in.

Originally Posted by Andy

Well, see, I'm not begging for sympathy. I'm just kind of a person and I exist. Looks have never meant a damned thing to me. Everything I do exists on a plane of reality outside of one that looks matter in.

Jeez, sorry. I wasn't saying it because I thought you were begging for sympathy. I was just telling you what I thought. And I was being honest too.

Originally Posted by ValaVarda

What the hell are you talking about? You look fine to me. Plus you can barely see you in that picture... Unless you are being sarcastic lol

I think many people are too harsh on themselves.

Nah, no sarcasm XD but yea you are right people are too harsh on themselves.

I am so so self concious that my mind literally makes me see me differently to everyone else- in a bad way. Like I said, I hate myself, but other people always disagree and say I'm cute, have a cute smile, ect.. I also hate my hair because it gets greasy really easily and needs washing all the time. And I am also a bit underweight, but I have eating problems.

I feel I think far to much then I should, I can never seem to rest and I always seem to be bubbling with some thought whether it be for a story or contemplating politics and society.

Physicially Im not to bad off. Perhaps slightly overweight (not to much, not even really fat but it sticks out slightly) and I suppose I can describe myself as hairy... My hair is fairly well off but already by the age of 16 I'm sporting a thin beard of blonde hair.

Though in terms of my face I feel I have a somewhat neutral, uncaring look. Occasionally hinting at sarcasm but I never really portray the caring and inquisitive attitiude I really have.

not particullarly tall, I wear a coat or heavy jacket often and I have poor tast in cloths, if it fits and doesn't look like crap I'll wear it.

Though, thats only the first bit of my thoughts to which I think to much about and such.

I think I look pretty good. I've never had to approach a girl for a date, they've always approached me(or gotten a friend to do it for them). Of course that was before I met my wife (who acted first between us). Actually since I've been married, I've had a couple women approach me when I've been out without my wife (very rarely happens).


I've put on about 10lbs in the last 2 years since I stopped working out, but it's not very noticable. I'm fairly active outside my job so it's easy to keep in pretty good shape. I have young children which I run around with whenever I can.

Originally Posted by MLNick

I think I look pretty good. I've never had to approach a girl for a date, they've always approached me(or gotten a friend to do it for them). Of course that was before I met my wife (who acted first between us). Actually since I've been married, I've had a couple women approach me when I've been out without my wife (very rarely happens).


I've put on about 10lbs in the last 2 years since I stopped working out, but it's not very noticable. I'm fairly active outside my job so it's easy to keep in pretty good shape. I have young children which I run around with whenever I can.

You sound like a nice, good and reasonable person...

I'll have to take you out in order to stem the competition

Pretty happy with how I look.

I am bored looking. Zombie like. I never smile, I look scary if I do lol. My friend told me I look like Hannibal the cannibal when I smile. So overall I am happy the way I look. My looks reflect my personality, except when I am smiling.

I'm very common, there's nothing special with me. So... I don't think about myself that I'm the prettiest girl around or whatever, I think I look boring. But there is one thing I love on my physical appearance, and that's my hair. ^^

I'm overweight. And have a scar on my lip. I look totally different with my glasses on, though. Personally, I don't like the way I look. But I hardly care.

A lot of people dissagree, but being the ego monster that I am, I find myself absolutly sexy.

Sure, I am DEFINATELY not chisled in stone, or have a perfect face, but when I look in the mirror, I see my reflection and I think "I'd tap that"

Sure, I still go to the gym a lot in an attempt to work off the flab. But that really isnt for me because I think I look fine...It's just a fair few don't, so it's more just trying to please them.


If I could choose, I wouldnt change a thing...



Would you?