i need help i think im an a** h$%@

my girlfriend sprained her ankle and i was like kinda mad cause we were supposed to go out today but she sprained her ankle so we cant and i feel like hella bad cause i mean i got mad i dont think i even said if she was ok or anything not even a simple good bye i feel like such an a** h$^@ but i mean she didnt decide to tell me she couldnt go untill i asked last nite thats my only thing i tryed callin her all weekend but she had her phone turned off and i mean i just wanted to talk with her... i think thats why i was mad but i mean was i completely in the wrong? i think i was but iono wat i think i just think i could have delt with it another way can somonoe please replie and tell me if i was an a** h$%@

Well, selfishiness gets to all of us. Even for a moment BUT.. at least you saw that. Phone her again and just tell her you were sorry and give her alot of love and attention even if it has to spoil your plans. That's the un A**h$%@wayish to do it

Everyone goes through rough points in a realationship. I think you have been a bit of a dummy although your girlfriend should have told you earlier that she couldn't go out with you instead of letting you get your hopes up. I think when you talk to your girl fiend you will both pach things up. I don't think you would has a fall out over the fact that you didn't ask her how she was.

GD is right. At least you realized your mistake and wants to make amends to your girlfriend, dArK_wOrLd_LiNk. Were you wrong? Sorry to say, yes.

Because you shouldn't have gotten mad because your girlfriend couldn't go out with you. She might has her own reasons and asking with the word: "why" will avoid this in the future. ^^

But don't take it too hard. We make a mistake here and there in our lives, and this is just one of those stages in life that you need to gain experience on. Take this as a test, an experience, to make yourself better and to make your relationship better in the future.

To say that you don't fight with your girlfriend is a lie. EVERYONE fights, no matter who.

First off, boy, calm down on the run on sentances!!!
Calm down!!!

It sounds like you could have handled the situation better.. It's not as if she purposely hurt herself in order to avoid going out with you. It sounds as if you were a bit selfish, only thinking of yourself in that situation. From what you said in your ramblings, I gather that you were in the wrong.

Yeah i kinda felt that way. Sorry about all of my grammer problems. I tryed calling her back about 2 minutes after i said all that stuff, and she had her phone off. i wanted to call and apologize but i cant ever get a hold of her... am i being selfish again? well iono but thank all of you for what you have said. it really helps me sort of see myself on the outside... makes no sence but yeah, so thank you again.

actually it does make sense, "seeing yourself on the outside".. I think it's great that you want to see what you may or may not have done wrong.. and that you want to make things right with her. May I ask how old you are? I would offer more advice, but I have to take into consideration age first ^_^
(I don't want to say "drive to see her" if you are only 13.. if you know what I mean ^_^)

well actually im 16 going on to 17, but i cant drive to see her seeing as though my car is on jack stnds and has no tires on it.... any ways im in sac and shes goin to see her grandparents in santa cuise and i dont wanna pop up and be like "hey im sorry" cause the ppl in my head say it would make things worse. so yeah

Well... depending on how long you have been seeing her, you might just want to pop up and say "hey i'm sorry". If you are really concerned about what has happened to your relationship, you should do everything that you can to try to make it right again. Go out of your way to show her that you still care. Most girls like the fact that a man would go completely out of their way just to show one little hint of caring... it's something that she may remember for the rest of her life.

I think she just needs a bit of time by herself, you know what I mean? Give her a bit of time, THEN apologize to her. If you tried to force her to listen, I think you'll make it worse. Make the right choice. We can only give you what we think but we can't tell you what to do.

That was one hell of a runon sentence... but I think I got the jist of it. Yeah, it was selfish, but we are always selfish sometimes. Your girlfriend will forgive you, everything is fine. I think most boys get like that sometimes... they ust really want to go out with the girl, no matter what. But really, everything is fine, I am sure she will forgive you.

Give her time to brethe, let her wound heal, then talk to her. See what happens then.

WHA?! You're HOW OLD?!

heh, don't mean to lam-into-ya...

but dude, would you even say that to a GUY FRIEND?!?? wow. Let alone your own girlfriend...

Meh, I'd better not say anymore in this....

Like everyone else said...sometimes everyone gets stupid ()_();

but MAN!! SOOOoooOOoO stupid... haha, okay..I don't really mean to be..mean...it's just kinda fun joshin ya..

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fine fine, I'll stop now <_<

Dave, you're so evil :p

Yeah, you should keep trying to talk to her and tell her that you're sorry you acted like an a**h$^@. I really think that's the best way to go about it.

Many things like that may happen within a relationship. If you both are being serious about this relationship, she will forgive you, and go out with you another time. YUCK!! I can't believe I sounded like Dr. Phil!! UCK!

Yes, you are indeed an *******.
Go apologise, immediatley.

How in the world has this not been locked yet.

You were a jerk, and thus you should appologize.