Your Dating Experiences

Saw this on another forum, so I thought I'd just bring it here.

So....let's all share our dating experiences here. Detail is very much appreciated, so if you love storytelling then this is the thread for you.
...This thread is pretty straightforward and to the point, so go on and start sharing. =3

Me and my right hand had some up and downs and hardships, but at the end of the day, we like to make sweet, sweet love. My dates with her are just wonderful!

I've never been on a date, sadly. Hate being single.

I've had many nice dating experiences, but I don't have any interesting stories to tell, though. Sorry guys.

The best dates are when you're with someone you really like/love and do the simple things: walk in the park, sing at the top of your lungs, and watch a sunset at the end of the day.

*insert girly sigh here*

Haha where to begin well in the past year there has been two girls that threw me to the wall saying they like me and NEED me. The first one was cool we went out a few times and things were going great then she went to Germany that was swell she comes back says nothing to me avoids me at work and there was no real reason why she started to ignore me, she didn't meet anyone in Germany and we were having a great time before she left. She ran to college and have not heard from her in 7 months hell o well. The next one this one is the killer we started hanging out no real romance in it but over time it grew until one night on my lunch she comes running up to me saying she likes me more than her current BF I am shocked and as happy as I ever been EVER. The kicker is that she has to go see him on the way down she talks to me saying how hard its gonna be to do it but its for the best for her mostly well very long story short she tries to break it off with him and he flips telling her she dose not know what shes talking about and 5 years without him isn't long at all. Then she tells me that shes gonna tell him whats what and end. Well shes with him at this moment she completely ignored me for the time being only talking small stuff with me it seems like she has distant me from her and when he leaves I dont know whats gonna happen. She would tell me for weeks how she is gonna break up with him and that "if" feelings for him come up that she can overcome them well she couldn't and now I am hear broken man life sucks it seems every girl I show interest in tells me they like me but nothing ever happens in the end its horrible. Just got to remember that there are more fish in the sea but I am in a desert there is no water and I am alone story of my life ha ha ha.

I have never been on a Date.

I've never been on a date either. I don't like being single, nope not at all. Just recently I heard a guy in school likes me, though. Dunno if I like him back, I only got a written note about it. I may know him, I may not. It could be a guy I've spoken to before, I just never knew who he was.

Oh well.

I remember when I first got to the United States my first girlfriend in the US was a Japanophile. Like a hardcore Anime freak. Of course having just gotten here I didn't know of the horrors those people caused. So you know being from Japan and being a fairly nice person I was a target. Lets just say a majority of our dates were spent with her making me teach her Japanese phrases and me answering her endless pool of questions about Japan. Then when I hung out with her friends and her sometimes it'd just be them asking me to teach them more phrases and stuff and asked about bands I've never even heard of. I even bought her some Japanese manga books. After awhile, I grew tired of this endless stream of Otaku from her, I got rid of her and found the wonderful woman who now i'll be calling my wife by April of next year by the latest. Seriously. Miss Otaku even tried to get me to quit Men's Crew and Football to join the ****ing Anime Club since she was president. What the **** was I thinking back then. Wait I do know. She wasn't asian and coming from a place where everyone was, I liked the non-asianness alot plus since she liked the country I thought it would be like being in the USA but at home at the same time. Big mistake.

Moral of the story. DONT DATE JAPANOPHILES. THEY KILL YOU FROM THE INSIDE.

I never have been on a date either, I was asked once though.

20 and never dated! (and quite hypocritically, I'm pretty sure I've given dating advice here!)

I'll start looking when I'm good and ready, but right now, I'm focusing more on generating happiness in other ways.

*stretches*

Well, here we go..

*clears throat*

I dated this girl once, and she was a very lovely girl. I met her when I was fourteen, and we dated when I was sixteen, which will almost be three years ago. Don't really want to get into the story, but I love her very much, and continue to love her very much, to this very day. It's not something I share often, but yeah. =3

Have you guys ever fallen even more in love with a person after you've broken up with them? I mean.. I was only sixteen at the time (and most of us allll know how it is with love around those ages). But, I really do feel as though I'm still in love with her. She's my bestest friend, and I have accepted the fact that we won't ever be together again, and that's quite okay with me. She has another person in her life right now, and honestly, I'm quite happy for her. Not jealous, or hurt, or anything of the like.

Anyways, I should stop now. x3

Other than that, I've been on many dates with people. I also have another story to tell about another lovely girl that is currently located in England, but I won't go there right now. ;P

I've hung out with girls for special occassions.
But no date. I feel I'm too young and will eventually get your heart broken when you start to feel for them. Everyone knows teen love never lasts.
Besides, too much responcibility and less freedom.

been on a couple casual dates and dated one girl for a few weeks. don't date too much myself. only date girls who I am really interested in. Passed up a fair number of really pretty girls too. Not into the slutty-party type. Not going for used goods.

All of my relationships have been very short term, mostly because they tend to happen at very inopportune times. Basically, before one or both of us moves away to go to different schools. The two big times it happened were right after high school and then again last year. But it isn't so much 'dating' as it is just hanging around with one other person a bunch...sometimes doing date-y things.

I think that's for the best, because at this point in my life I don't really feel like being in a big fancy relationship. I don't mind being single and I subscribe to the belief that you really shouldn't be with someone until you are ok with being on your own. A concept that I had a hard time vocalizing until a tv show put it into words I couldn't for some reason.

But yeah, not much in the way of dating experience, because my experiences probably aren't the norm for what a typical experience would be.

I've had two relationships which didn't quite long, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year. It was a rocky relationship, but I did love him.

I was in a relationship with a girl once, a few dates she tried to get in bed with me. We were only 13. x3 Horny little girl, her.

I'm still young, so yeah, I might have a few more experiences ahead of me!

Lord, I have an awful first-date story xD. I didn't even know I was being asked on a date. When I was 11, this kid, Eddie, asked me if I wanted to see a movie with him. I was a tomboy and had no idea he meant in a *romantic* way, so I was like dude, I got no money, and he was like "I'll pay for your ticket..." So, I was like FREE MOVIE, HELL YES. He was all and said he'd meet me at theatre the next evening.

So, the next evening comes and I'm about to leave, and then I notice my older brother looking awfully bored watching TV. So, feeling sorry for him, I ask him if he wants to go see a movie with me and Eddie. Can you imagine the look on poor Eddie's face when I walked into the cinema with my staunch older brother behind me? Poor darling was petrified. So, my older brother sits between us in the movie theatre and Eddie keeps trying to get my attention, but I was like DUDE, SHUT UP, MOVIE IS ON. He barely got anywhere near me through the entire movie. Afterward, my brother goes to the bathroom and Eddie turns to me and says, "I'm so glad you came on this date with me" I was like, date WTF? And he kissed me. Of course, my brother comes back, sees Eddie kissing me and my face like , and so he punches Eddie in the face and drags me home with him.

... Ooh, painful to remember xDDD.

Anyway, after that, I got asked out several times in high school and turned them all down. I earned the nick-name Ice Queen because I always said no. I turned them down because they often asked me out because of my appearance - which is, I know before anyone says it, impossible to avoid and what a lot of people are attracted to first. But, I guess being the romantic I am, I wanted to be asked because some dude liked my mind and my appearance at the same time. My friends argued that that's what the date was for - to get to know each other. But, still, I said no and focused on my studies instead.

I got to uni and, finally, said yes to this dude, Richard. We went on a date and it was wonderful. And then he didn't call me for 6 week xD Of course, by then, I had lost interest (I had tried several times to get in contact with him) and he later approached my best friend and was like "so, yeah, Liah, she's still my girl, right?"

Wrong xD.

Aaaand finally, I met Brandon. I fell in love. When I was in Florida with him, we went to the movies, the beach, snuck into the apartment complex pool at 1am xD, had picnics, went to Butterfly World, watched the sunrise together, and, well, now we're engaged. Hooray, Liah finally met a boy she's happy with xD.

I could tell you, but there was nothing particularly special about it.

Actually, at first, I didn't want to go on a date. I told a girl I had just gotten to know that I was going to a particular carnival not too far from where we both lived. She started giving hints, and of course I realized she wanted to go with me. I tried to dodge it, because I was planning to go with a bunch of buddies, so I really didn't feel like having her around at such a time. However, I ended up agreeing to meet her.

By some twist of fate, my buddies were all busy somewhere, so I didn't get to see them. Instead, I was stuck with her. I had lots of fun though, so any negative thought quickly vanished after the carnival.

I could tell she liked me in that special way, and it was fun while it lasted. Not too long after that, we got closer and closer. What happened after that, I can't be bothered to type down.


When I think about, I've met plenty of girls here and there, but we've never quite had a date. You could just say we were being friendly. The time at the carnival, though, was obviously a date.

Obviously, the last thing I want to do is trick myself into believing I'm going on a date or something similar, when it's not a date. Even though we've acted similar to it. That's the thing these days, a girl and a boy can even share a bed or give eachother cute little nicknames, and it doesn't have to mean anything serious at all.

Aside from dating I've had some - what I felt was - sort of disturbing girls on my tail. I'm not much into girls that want to meet me and that seem to be very open about the idea of intercourse when they don't even know me. Haha.

As for being single, it used to hurt. Now, I no longer care nearly enough as I did before. I merely don't see bonding the way most people do, and frankly most females don't really impress me with their crappy personalities. I'm not much attracted to impulsive creatures, as bonding with them comes with great risk. Right now, I feel like I could do without them for a lifetime.

This has been another episode of Dr. Will, and today everybody gets a free condom.

Originally Posted by Liah

Lord, I have an awful first-date story xD. I didn't even know I was being asked on a date. When I was 11, this kid, Eddie, asked me if I wanted to see a movie with him. I was a tomboy and had no idea he meant in a *romantic* way, so I was like dude, I got no money, and he was like "I'll pay for your ticket..." So, I was like FREE MOVIE, HELL YES. He was all and said he'd meet me at theatre the next evening.

So, the next evening comes and I'm about to leave, and then I notice my older brother looking awfully bored watching TV. So, feeling sorry for him, I ask him if he wants to go see a movie with me and Eddie. Can you imagine the look on poor Eddie's face when I walked into the cinema with my staunch older brother behind me? Poor darling was petrified. So, my older brother sits between us in the movie theatre and Eddie keeps trying to get my attention, but I was like DUDE, SHUT UP, MOVIE IS ON. He barely got anywhere near me through the entire movie. Afterward, my brother goes to the bathroom and Eddie turns to me and says, "I'm so glad you came on this date with me" I was like, date WTF? And he kissed me. Of course, my brother comes back, sees Eddie kissing me and my face like , and so he punches Eddie in the face and drags me home with him.

... Ooh, painful to remember xDDD.

I can top that, though not with a story of my own.

In high school this guy asked one of my friends if she wanted to go to a movie, which isn't that odd except that he said that he had invited a bunch of his friends as well as her friends to see it as well, using a list of names of who he had invited. It was pretty common in high school to go see movies in huge groups like that, and different people usually took the lead while organizing this major screenings. While this guy had never done it before, that wasn't really anything to think about.

So when she shows up its just him and he says "Yeah, everyone else couldn't make it at the last second, stuff came up." Which she thought was pretty weird, but I suppose possible. They watch the movie and it is the most awkward experience ever, because they didn't even know each other very well.

Anyway, she finds out pretty soon that none of his friends or her friends (including myself) had ever received any invitation from this guy to see any movie, ever. He had just made that bit up to make sure she would say yes. Hilarious.

I knew this girl for three years. Over these three years we got closer and closer until one day her boyfriend dumped her for someone else. I was the first person she came to. We both talked and talked and finally I was drinking one night and asked her out through text message. She told me to ask her when I was sober so I asked her in person before school the next day. She said yeah.
It lasted two days until she wrote me a note saying that she wasn't over her ex-boyfriend and she needed to fix her life because her ex (his name is Rob) messed it up for her. She told me to 'wait for her'. We were 'reserved' for each other. So I waited.
We still talked a lot. We basically were dating, just without all those benefits. And she wanted to do something with me that weekend. So that Saturday came around and I asked her if she was coming along and she said "I don't know yet" (all text messages). So told her just to tell me whenever. But the people we were going with were on their way and they needed to know if she was coming or not. So I asked her "We need to know if you are coming or not, soon". I get a text back "I can't. I'm with Robbie <3". So I replied back with "What the hell?! Don't tell me you're back together" I get one last message: "She mine! haahahaaj" (Yeah, he put a "j" in there. The typo pissed me off even more"

This is why people go gay.

This wasn't really a "dating" story because the date didn't actually happen..... oh well. I have told my story.

I don't really have any spectacular dating stories.

I've only been on a handful of actual "dates". Most of my relationships developed from friendships or whatnot.

I'm glad I'm 24, in a long-term reltionship and done with the immature crap. I feel sorry for those of you who've fallen victim to the frivolity and drama of the higschool dating scene. I managed to steer clear of it (aside from freshman year a little).

Originally Posted by King Nevisui I of Pen Island

I was in a relationship with a girl once, a few dates she tried to get in bed with me. We were only 13. x3 Horny little girl, her.

xDD Oh kikz, ilu. I had a girlfriend when I was thirteen too. :3

I actually dislike relationships... >.>I'm never very good at them~ Always too clingy. That's what drove my first boyfriend away. Sorta... We were on and off for like. 3 years~ And my second boyfriend cheated on me because I wasn't clingy enough. And. Billy was going to like... >.> Ask me to... marry him... DDDDD: I broke up with him real fast when I learned about that one. >.>; That ****er. D: Danny disappeared into nothing-ness. And. D: I don't talk to any of them anymore :D I like it that way~ <3