How come it's harder for us colored folk to get with white women?

Until one person can please reasonably explain to me why white women give off an air of being untouchable please answer. No, it's not because I'm a communist or any of that personal stuff which a person I have just met would know, so please take a crack at it.

EDIT: White women are a preference, yes, but I'm currently the sex partner of a hispanic woman. As for my own heritage, I am disgusted by certain aspects and mostly dislike the people, but I can't change it and it seems to be used against me at times but it's been a very odd experience.

White Woman do not give off an air of untouchable. I don't know why you keep insisting they do, but I have yet to see one white woman give the feeling of "untouchable".

They don't give off an air of being untouchable, and if they do, it's certainly not because they're white. You're making out as if white women are like, White Supremacists or something.

Stop stereotyping white women.

Stereotyping is hilarious but doing so wrongly is even more so.

Originally Posted by Discussion

Racism was never addressed, dear. It's a clear bias, though, and one which is rarely ever given any thought. I see it all too well, though...being a socially conscious member of the vanguard.

First of all, the terms of endearment have to stop. Jah.

Second of all, don't accuse us of not giving thought to any sort of racial or ethnic bias. When there was that topic about Asian women getting surgery to "fix" their eyelids, I pointed out that the American standard of physical beauty is a white standard. And you know what? Everyone got all, "Well, I'm attracted to Asian women." So don't tell us that no one ever thinks about this.

You're complaining that white women only like men who are European and tan. Not only are you generalizing about all white women, but you're assuming that all white women are straight. And you're assuming that all white women do find the Euro standard attractive. It's one thing to say, "The standard of male beauty in the United States is a European one." It's quite another to talk about how we're all racist, and you can't get a white chick because of your ethnicity.

Besides, your obsession with white women and Jewish women in particular is alarming. Why should we take you so seriously on the issue of ethnicity when you're making such distinctions yourself?

This whole topic is ****ing ridiculous.

And once again, if you're so upset about white, Jewish women not being attracted to you, consider this: you're a self-admitted androgynous, cross-dressing Communist who isn't Jewish. While I have no problem with any of those things, I'm not the least bit attracted to you because of your attitude towards Jewish women. So consider that perhaps your ethnicity has nothing to do with why you, personally, don't have any white chicks going nuts over you.

Originally Posted by Discussion

Until one person can please reasonably explain to me why white women give off an air of being untouchable please answer. No, it's not because I'm a communist or any of that personal stuff which a person I have just met would know, so please take a crack at it.

EDIT: White women are a preference, yes, but I'm currently the sex partner of a hispanic woman. As for my own heritage, I am disgusted by certain aspects and mostly dislike the people, but I can't change it and it seems to be used against me at times but it's been a very odd experience.

So you feel like you're being wrong because white women don't seem to like your ethnic group, yet you yourself are disgusted by it?

Pfft. I just think you're pissed because there are women out there that don't immediately think you're teh sex.

Originally Posted by Sapphira

you're a self-admitted androgynous, cross-dressing Communist who isn't Jewish.

I just noticed this part. What does that have to do with anything again?

Originally Posted by Lelouch

I just noticed this part. What does that have to do with anything again?

Rofl racism.

Sorry mon cheri, I'll try to stop.

Second of all, don't accuse us of not giving thought to any sort of racial or ethnic bias. When there was that topic about Asian women getting surgery to "fix" their eyelids, I pointed out that the American standard of physical beauty is a white standard. And you know what? Everyone got all, "Well, I'm attracted to Asian women." So don't tell us that no one ever thinks about this.

Notice that I've been using the word seem in relation to my posts. There certainly is a difference between categorically claiming such things and leaving absolutely no room for interpretation which is not what I'm doing, save for the racial system in mexico which is pretty much true.

Besides, your obsession with white women and Jewish women in particular is alarming. Why should we take you so seriously on the issue of ethnicity when you're making such distinctions yourself?

Oh my god, why do you think I idolize white women? I treasure their art first and foremost, and in the case of Anna Karina, Francoise Hardy, Zooey Deschanel, and Mary Elizabeth Winstead, I genuinely enjoy what they do. Sure, I'm attracted to them, but I am a die hard fan of what they do!

And once again, if you're so upset about white, Jewish women not being attracted to you, consider this: you're a self-admitted androgynous, cross-dressing Communist who isn't Jewish. While I have no problem with any of those things, I'm not the least bit attracted to you because of your attitude towards Jewish women. So consider that perhaps your ethnicity has nothing to do with why you, personally, don't have any white chicks going nuts over you.

What s my attitude against jewish women? That I consider them a smart and prosperous people? What's so bad about that? I've seen the historical significance of them as a people, and its been a rocky one and I see it as a refreshing one in which people overcome diversity which not only sprang from reactionary and conservative circles, but even from ones that claimed to be liberal!

Originally Posted by Lelouch

I just noticed this part. What does that have to do with anything again?

Many Jewish men and women (many, not all) are only interested in dating/marrying another Jewish person. Most of my Jewish friends here at school are not planning on marrying a non-Jew, and many of them won't even date non-Jews. For me, marrying a Jew is semi-important because I want my children raised in the Jewish faith and I don't believe in "half-Jewish." So while my husband wouldn't have to be Jewish, I would be hard-pressed to find a non-Jew who wouldn't mind if we didn't celebrate Christmas and Easter.

EDIT: Discussion, please stop using terms of endearment. I really mean that. And please stop generalizing about Jewish people. Really.

Oy vey, sounds like a subtle form of discrimination to me!

Originally Posted by Discussion

Oh my god, why do you think I idolize white women? I treasure their art first and foremost, and in the case of Anna Karina, Francoise Hardy, Zooey Deschanel, and Mary Elizabeth Winstead, I genuinely enjoy what they do. Sure, I'm attracted to them, but I am a die hard fan of what they do!

Well you do seem pissed a the fact that white women don't seem to like you.

Originally Posted by Discussion

Oh my god, why do you think I idolize white women? I treasure their art first and foremost, and in the case of Anna Karina, Francoise Hardy, Zooey Deschanel, and Mary Elizabeth Winstead, I genuinely enjoy what they do. Sure, I'm attracted to them, but I am a die hard fan of what they do!

None of that has any relation whatsoever to their ethnicity. That's their own personal merit, which you're simply associating with their ethnicity for some reason beyond my comprehension.

What s my attitude against jewish women? That I consider them a smart and prosperous people? What's so bad about that? I've seen the historical significance of them as a people, and its been a rocky one and I see it as a refreshing one in which people overcome diversity which not only sprang from reactionary and conservative circles, but even from ones that claimed to be liberal!

Just because someone's Jewish doesn't automatically make them smart, like above that's down to their own personal merit.

Originally Posted by Sapphira

Many Jewish men and women (many, not all) are only interested in dating/marrying another Jewish person. Most of my Jewish friends here at school are not planning on marrying a non-Jew, and many of them won't even date non-Jews. For me, marrying a Jew is semi-important because I want my children raised in the Jewish faith and I don't believe in "half-Jewish." So while my husband wouldn't have to be Jewish, I would be hard-pressed to find a non-Jew who wouldn't mind if we didn't celebrate Christmas and Easter.

I was about to call racism but then I realised you meant the religion, not the ethnicity.

Since I've dated non-Jews, and I'm not bent on marrying a Jew, I wouldn't say I'm discriminating against non-Jews in general.

EDIT: Yeah, Lelouch, I know what you mean. The weird thing with Judaism is that it's a culture, an ethnicity, and a religion. I'm ethnically and religiously Jewish, but I'm not culturally Jewish. So, my ancestors were all Jews, and I attend services and all that, but if you asked me to cook you something Jewish, I'd fail.

Originally Posted by Discussion

Oy vey, sounds like a subtle form of discrimination to me!

How?

So if Jewish people don't mary outside of the cultural norm, it's discrimination?
I dare you to confront a Jewish woman and say, "Marry me or you're racist."

Not pissed, just confused. As I've said already, I have been with white women before, but these were girls who confided to me they dated almost exclusively with latin men.

Originally Posted by Gman

So you feel like you're being wronged because white women don't seem to like your ethnic group, yet you yourself are disgusted by it?

Pfft. I just think you're pissed because there are women out there that don't immediately think you're teh sex.

My point still stands.

Originally Posted by Sapphira

Since I've dated non-Jews, and I'm not bent on marrying a Jew, I wouldn't say I'm discriminating against non-Jews in general.

Fair enough. Then again you do seem to be asking a bit much in that you'd rather your husband didn't celebrate Christmas, but you presumably want him to celebrate the various Jewish holidays (forgive me for not remembering any other than Chanukkah [Hannukah?] off-hand). You could just do both.

But this is a bit off-topic, so yeah.

Originally Posted by Discussion

Not pissed, just confused. As I've said already, I have been with white women before, but these were girls who confided to me they dated almost exclusively with latin men.

So why did you create this topic? To yell at those of us who don't date Latino men?

EDIT: Lelouch, we keep posting at the same time, haha. I would be hard-pressed to find a non-Jew who would be willing to stop celebrating Christmas and Easter, which is why, if I do get married, I will most likely marry a Jew. And I don't want to celebrate non-Jewish holidays, and I don't want to raise my children to celebrate them either. Again, I'll probably end up marrying a Jew.