I'm so depressed. :( Ugh...

Originally Posted by Eternal Paradox

..... sigh, that passage doesn't say anything about people in love not fighting. People aren't perfect, people will fight. Ask your parents, they fight. And they are Christians, right? They get through their fights and still love each other.

To say people in love should not fight, is naive. Go to your parents and ask them about people in love fighting.

My parents are not Christians...

I posted the passage, because that's what we know our love is like. We have no need to fight, when we're reminded of that passage. It works for us, so why are you objecting to it?

Well... it had worked for us for about a year... now........... yeah... :/

Originally Posted by andi

I don't just think it's stupid - it is stupid. And if something didn't affect you, you wouldn't have made this post in the first place.

GET OVER IT, STOP WHINING ABOUT SOMETHING SO INSIGNIFICANT.

There's your advice. :3

I said it did effect me...

Well, wah. Good, I'm glad it does. Obviously you can't reasonably comprehend anything if it doesn't affect you in any way at all. :3

Get what I'm saying though, boyo?

Originally Posted by andi

Well, wah. Good, I'm glad it does. Obviously you can't reasonably comprehend anything if it doesn't affect you in any way at all. :3

Get what I'm saying though, boyo?

No... but I don't care...

Originally Posted by Sloths Rule

My parents are not Christians...

I posted the passage, because that's what we know our love is like. We have no need to fight, when we're reminded of that passage. It works for us, so why are you objecting to it?

Why am i objecting to it? Because you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

Do you have a priest or pastor you can talk to? Because you obviously are not going believe me.

Originally Posted by Eternal Paradox

Why am i objecting to it? Because you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

Do you have a priest or pastor you can talk to? Because you obviously are not going believe me.

Okay.

Obviously that passage wasn't the only thing that stopped us from fighting.

Just, look...

Who's more likely to fight?

A Christian couple, or an atheist couple?

Sure, statistics may show that they both fight the same.

But who's really Christian these days? I mean REALLY Christian? We do try our hardest to be good people... I stuff up so much though, especially on the Internet, as it's easy just to type anything. We learn our morals from the Bible; there really is a lot of good stuff in there. It's not just crap like "be nice to people". It's deeper than that, really.

I'm not saying that we're better than everyone else... I really am a crappy person, I could be so much better... but when it comes to her, I try my hardest, and the Bible helps me.... so yeah.

I don't mean to be a rent-a-mod but how have you gone from "your girlfriend saying a naughty word" to some religions rant? o.O

Originally Posted by Josh

I don't mean to be a rent-a-mod but how have you gone from "your girlfriend saying a naughty word" to some religions rant? o.O

No, it's still about my girlfriend.

Why are you in a relationship when you can't so much as deal with your partner saying one word you don't like?

Originally Posted by e_alert

Why are you in a relationship when you can't so much as deal with your partner saying one word you don't like?

PAHLEESE read the thread!

I did read the thread. Now how about answering my question?

I would really leave religion out if this. You being Christian has nothing to do with this. She is a human being, she has the right to be pissed off and swear at people. And fighting is just natural for any couple, your situation is no exception. If the bible helps you, that's all fine, but when you use it to defend your behaviour or reaction to something in a relationship, it has gone too far.

Be with her because you like the person she is, not because she believes the same stuff you do. What if she suddenly converts to Islam, or curse the Christ for whatever reason? I hope you'd be able to accept that. People change, and you gotta be prepared for that, or you're deffinately gonna lose her.

Originally Posted by e_alert

I did read the thread. Now how about answering my question?

I'm pretty sure you didn't read the thread. It wasn't because she said a word I didn't like, what in the world are you talking about??

In the event that this thread is serious:
Figure out what you did that prompted her to call you that name in anger and realize it was only done in the heat of the moment--and humbly apologize to her. Hopefully she will do the same, and you two will work things out all in good time.

In the event that this thread is a joke:
Another marvelous troll thread by Sloths Rule, quickly becoming ZU's favorite troll!

Originally Posted by Hombre de Mundo

I would really leave religion out if this. You being Christian has nothing to do with this. She is a human being, she has the right to be pissed off and swear at people. And fighting is just natural for any couple, your situation is no exception. If the bible helps you, that's all fine, but when you use it to defend your behaviour or reaction to something in a relationship, it has gone too far.

Be with her because you like the person she is, not because she believes the same stuff you do. What if she suddenly converts to Islam, or curse the Christ for whatever reason? I hope you'd be able to accept that. People change, and you gotta be prepared for that, or you're deffinately gonna lose her.

lol, sorry man... but her converting would be as likely as George Bush becoming a porn star.

Originally Posted by Rew

In the event that this thread is serious:
Figure out what you did that prompted her to call you that name in anger and realize it was only done in the heat of the moment--and humbly apologize to her. Hopefully she will do the same, and you two will work things out all in good time.

In the event that this thread is a joke:
Another marvelous troll thread by Sloths Rule, quickly becoming ZU's favorite troll!

Hahahhahahaha @ the troll thing. But seriously, if I was trolling, I'd make this thread more... funny, I guess. Like it being my boyfriend in stead of my girlfriend hahahahahaha (Nothing against gays, but I'd find that situation funny).

A gay person being called a "dick" by his gay lover, I have to admit, would be amusing.

In all seriousness, this situation will blow over soon. Just talk it out with her gently and rationally.

Originally Posted by Sloths Rule

If they don't say it on prime time sitcoms, it's a swear word to me.

Have I ever told you how much I love you?


You're completely overreacting here mate. If you can't deal with a small fight in a relationship with someone you apparently love, then you probably aren't ready for a relationship yet.