Am I too sensitive for a man?

I dunno, I loled.

Originally Posted by lord-of-shadow

And don't listen to Nox. He was clearly abused as a child.

lawl.

Actually, Im just telling it as it is. Girls do like sensitivity, but in the long run if you over blow it, they'll think of you as too soft and break your heart. Its better to cry now and get tough later.

I think, as a female, that's it's cute when a guy crys, but also a little embarassing.

Last Halloween, my boyfriend [who is a jazz musician] had written me a song and performed it live at a concert. Halfway through the song he started crying a little. He choked his way through it and then came and sat down and held my hand when the next musician went up. I wasn't sure whether to laugh at him or cry myself.

I think emotion is important, but being overemotional can be scary too.

I'm thinking about buying this girl some flowers. I've seriously never been touched like this from another real girl. I remember back in the day when I didn't even like women because I thought they were whores. I think that was one of the reason why I turned to Marin for that period of time.

I think G_d is trying to send me a message. A message that a girl outside my religion doesn't necessarily mean she's no good.

(If women read this, please don't be offended as I had a heart of stone when I got out of home-schooling.) I'm so happy a girl now chiseled it.

Women and men are sensitive. It's just that men were forced to keep their emotions inside and it has gone along through generations.

Good luck, JoshCube, just be careful not to let your emotions control you.

Originally Posted by Void Phantom

Women and men are sensitive. It's just that men were forced to keep their emotions inside and it has gone along through generations.

Good luck, JoshCube, just be careful not to let your emotions control you.

I agree.

I remember a few years back when my emotions had complete control over me. I fell in love with the idea of having a girl similar to Marin and it got a hold of me. I used to cry about it on certain nights, I couldn't even stop thinking of Marin sometimes, it was very terrible. It was terrible because I suffered from this for two years, and my mistake was letting my emotions go like that.

I want to keep my emotions close to G_d because I don't want to ever go into another trance like that again. I actually suffered for 2 long years of crying and weeping because I hypnotized myself into falling in love with Marin.
It's not that I wanted to be with the character, I wanted a girl LIKE her. But still, it was going way too far.

Originally Posted by JoshCube

I'm thinking about buying this girl some flowers. I've seriously never been touched like this from another real girl. I remember back in the day when I didn't even like women because I thought they were whores. I think that was one of the reason why I turned to Marin for that period of time.

I think G_d is trying to send me a message. A message that a girl outside my religion doesn't necessarily mean she's no good.

(If women read this, please don't be offended as I had a heart of stone when I got out of home-schooling.) I'm so happy a girl now chiseled it.

I wouldn't get God involved with this... and I would certainly not do it if this girl is not of your religion. If I can give you one piece of advice, that'd be to never, ever let your religion come in between you and her. Because if you do, chances are you'll lose her just like that *snaps*

That being said, I recommend getting her flowers if you're going out with her. Either a bunch, or just a single but delicate rose. Myself, I'd go for the latter ;-)

The best of luck to you. And I wouldn't be concerned about you having strong emotions for someone. I actually shed a tear when I had to leave the states... *shrugs* whatever, you know. As long as your emotions don't become a burden to you or her, you're good to go.

Originally Posted by Hombre de Mundo

That being said, I recommend getting her flowers if you're going out with her. Either a bunch, or just a single but delicate rose. Myself, I'd go for the latter ;-)

Men like that exist?!

^ I'd consider myself pretty much existing, so ya

I might just buy her a rose. I'd like to buy her a bunch of flowers but I don't know if that would be silly for the first date.

Originally Posted by JoshCube

I might just buy her a rose. I'd like to buy her a bunch of flowers but I don't know if that would be silly for the first date.

Aw, thats so nice. Buy her flowers, I'd love to get flowers on my first date! Then again maybe just one rose id good for now.

no, not at all!
im pretty sensitive i can cry in movies, after very beautiful sad songs
i get emotionally attached to people really easy...
all that

Originally Posted by ginger17

Aw, thats so nice. Buy her flowers, I'd love to get flowers on my first date! Then again maybe just one rose id good for now.

I've figured out what I'm going to buy her.

- A bunch of flowers.
- A copy of Super Smash Bros. Brawl.
- Dinner at the mall.

I've really fallen for this girl.

A game on the first date? Nice. But then, you must be pretty sure that she likes SSB or else she´ll think your a nerd yunno.
And I dont think your to sensitive those who thinks so just wish they had a girl that liked them

Originally Posted by Agni

A game on the first date? Nice. But then, you must be pretty sure that she likes SSB or else she´ll think your a nerd yunno.
And I dont think your to sensitive those who thinks so just wish they had a girl that liked them

She's into video games, that's the thing.

I think it's a stereotype here in America that if a man cries, he's a wimp. I think this is all a bunch of bullcrap.

^ Woh woh woh woh... woh. Easy there, sailor. I know you wanna show her that you really like her and that's all fine, but really, skip Brawl. Even if she's into that stuff, you're taking it a bit too far for your first date.

The flowers and dinner is all golden, girls fall for that kind of thing, but... no brawl. For her birthday or x-mas I'm sure that's a good idea but you need to start of easy. You need to give it some time. If you're trying too hard, then that might give her the wrong signals.

Dating a girl is not easy. Getting it right takes time and a lot of work. Don't do anything that could be interpreted for something it is not. If you try too hard, she might think you're getting creepy or something.

Originally Posted by Hombre de Mundo

^ Woh woh woh woh... woh. Easy there, sailor. I know you wanna show her that you really like her and that's all fine, but really, skip Brawl. Even if she's into that stuff, you're taking it a bit too far for your first date.

The flowers and dinner is all golden, girls fall for that kind of thing, but... no brawl. For her birthday or x-mas I'm sure that's a good idea but you need to start of easy. You need to give it some time. If you're trying too hard, then that might give her the wrong signals.

Dating a girl is not easy. Getting it right takes time and a lot of work. Don't do anything that could be interpreted for something it is not. If you try too hard, she might think you're getting creepy or something.

I'm not trying too hard, it's just a gift that I'm wrapping.

^ Well you do what you think is right, but I really think you shouldn't start with spenidng like 100$ (including dinner, game, flowers and maybe something else, what do I know) for the first date. It'd be too overwhelming.

Then again, you know this girl, and I don't so in the end, you should know what to do. Just saying, being quite familiar with girls and their way of thinking, I'm just giving you a warning. Good luck though, I hope it turns out awesome, whatever you decide to do.

Originally Posted by JoshCube

I've figured out what I'm going to buy her.

- A bunch of flowers.
- A copy of Super Smash Bros. Brawl.
- Dinner at the mall.

I've really fallen for this girl.

Aw, thats great! She has a Wii too? Is she in to video games? I sure hope so.

You've never had a date before? You actually cried simply because someone asked you out? It's a date man, she didn't ask you to marry her or something. I'm not saying you are oversensitive but your reaction seems a tad bit extreme.

Best of luck to ya though.