What is your love language?

I'd make this a poll, but tonight I don't seem to be smart enough to figure out how. So, we'll just stick will an average topic. ^^;

*ahem* Just a quick summary for those who don't know what I'm talking about-: Love languages are the ways in which you give and receive love, on a daily basis. (at least, I sure hope you do!) For example, it may make you feel loved for someone to spend time with you (quality time). Some people might have more than one.

The five love languages are:

Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
Quality Time
Gift Giving

My main love language is physical touch. I'd die without any kind of affection. Case. Closed. Which isn't anything pervy, I'm just shown love by hugs, being held, etc.

Sooo, what's your love language? ^^

Definitly physical touch. I try and not too much of it as this can ruin relationships if it gets at an extreame.

Family: 1 and 4.

Special Loved One: All of the above.

Originally Posted by Nox

Definitly physical touch. I try and not too much of it as this can ruin relationships if it gets at an extreame.

Too much can ruin a relationship?

Well, it does leave out communication and such. Also, we all know what physical contact can lead to.

Really though, I don't mind holding hands or outright groping my loved one, its just that I don't want the whole relationship to be centering around that.

Originally Posted by Nox

Well, it does leave out communication and such. Also, we all know what physical contact can lead to.

Really though, I don't mind holding hands or outright groping my loved one, its just that I don't want the whole relationship to be centering around that.

That.. is a scary, scary thought.... damage to a good relationship, that is.

But anyway, I agree. I'm currently deprived of affection, so it's hard to agree at the moment, but I know that, deep down, I do. ^^

I don't know if it has to be some of those that you put out, but I would say words of affection, showing the person how special they are, always making them feel free to tell or speak their thoughts, always making them feel loved and warm inside...Those are my styles that make my personality so charming to love and even to friends.

Originally Posted by MissRachel

That.. is a scary, scary thought.... damage to a good relationship, that is.

But anyway, I agree. I'm currently deprived of affection, so it's hard to agree at the moment, but I know that, deep down, I do. ^^

Heh, as am I. Weird how lust can trun into love huh?

Originally Posted by Nox

Heh, as am I. Weird how lust can trun into love huh?

No, not weird at all.. lust came second in our relationship. ;]

Quality time is also important. If it's never you and your 'friend' spend any time alone with each other you're relationship won't progress was quickly. Physical tough is also important, nothing pervert though, like MissRachel said, just hugs and hand holding. Though I'm usually glomped by girls instead of gental touching.

Words and service do much for me. Service heavily echoes back sacrifice, which is I think is one of the greater things seen in love. And while actions can speak for their own, I think words are important as well. Physical touch is something I don't consider that important, at least to me. I think mostly of my libido and romantic feelings as distinct. They could conicide at some point, but I really don't feel like that right now. Maybe in a couple years.. Of course, it dosen't have to be all sexual, but I'm not really to big of a fan of touch all and all.

Originally Posted by Frost Guardian

Words and service do much for me. Service heavily echoes back sacrifice, which is I think is one of the greater things seen in love.

I like to do more of quality time, because service can get a little to messy. My loved ones tend to take advantage of me when I try to help them, and I get sick of doing so much very quickly.

Originally Posted by Prophecy

I don't know if it has to be some of those that you put out, but I would say words of affection, showing the person how special they are, always making them feel free to tell or speak their thoughts, always making them feel loved and warm inside...Those are my styles that make my personality so charming to love and even to friends.

I agree 100% with prophecy,its like my style too.

Quality Time. Having a good time is better than just touching and words, in my opinion. Although I don't really care about these things all that much, just as long as both sides are having a great time, it's all good.

Quality Time and Physical Touch.

Quality time is important to because, um, I'm clingy... >> And couples can easily drift apart if they barely spend any time together. =/

But. I would only like talking unless I could cuddle with the person (if it's a romantic interest. >>) at the same time.

My love language is normally slurred speech and beer-breath. Not a turn on for the women apparently.

~ Adhamh.

Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch, Quality Time. That's my love language. Even though some people call me a perv--sister, a friend. I like the physical touch, not groping to death and especially not Chichi wo moge--even though that's not bad. It's goog to feel and hold people in your arms or lean against them. Quality time is important too.

For now, I would have to go with words. It's the only way I can communicate with my loved one, and for the rest of my loved ones, It's the best way.

Maybe when I get to experience other forms of the love language, I'll change my mind.

Physical Touch

Never been held.

I long for that.

Originally Posted by Ismene

Never been held.

I long for that.

Aww, Is'.. as they say, the best things in life are worth waiting for. And you're a particularly special person, so all will most definitely work out for you. ^^ I understand where you're coming from, though I do remember being held when I was little.