Wow..... I can say that I have had the worst day ever....

Today three people who i have considered good friends for the past 3 years stabbed me in the back and called me a c*ck sucking ******* infront of the school today, that just makes me feels special all over.

I have had that happen to me several times. I just shrug it off and tell myself I dont want them to be friends with people who act that way to me. Its not a very fun thing to go through, you kinda get a hurt, sad, pissed, and clueless feeling in the pit of your stomach. You will get through it, there will be more friends, though I know they were good ones of you. Dont let it hurt you too much, dwelling isnt a good thing to do, I do if often. In a weird way it makes me feel better, but in reallity it does not. Sorry if my post sounded weird and confusing, because its kind of one of those things you would have to experiance for yourself. >_<

meh i have been stabbed in the back so many by my "friends" its happened so many i just dont care, most children are so cruel, and make fun of u for somethin u wear *cough*glasses*cough*

i have had some friends (three) since i was eight when i moved to where i am now weve went thru some rough times but never made fun of the other person and totally pissed them off, we had a gand goin on with ither people but they all got to be dick heads so its just us three now, and i think always will be, my brother has had some friends since he was in the seventh grade, he still friends with them, they are cool and stuff so yeah

I haven't been backstabbed before...do you know their motives at all?

That sucks Cole. This has happened to me before as well. Young people's opinions can swing in a day, and can do something totally random or off-color for seemingly no reason. Like what others here have said, I would advise somehow finding out why.

Weak times we're livin' in, I swear... 's why I never bothered to talk to anyone during school. Sorry about your experience, but, hey; if they were willing to do something like that to you, then they're not worth it as friends. Screw 'em, move on and find yourself some better people.

Best of luck.

Eh, i feel like i am always getting back-stabbed by my friends. But, it might just be my paranoia of people. I dunno. You will get through it. If you don't, you will end up killing yourself.

On a happier note, If i were you, i would go up to them the next day at school and stomp their ass for what they did.

That would be a good idea. They might have been messing around, who knows. But it would be worth it to "stom their asses."

lol I want to but that would just be the wrong this to do. I have no idea why they did it. I mean I did nothing to them. Now there spreading rumors on MSN. Oh my day is geting better and better by the minute. Seranno you are the luckiest guy alive. Well I should have expected this, every friend that I've had has stabbed me in the back once or twice, but nothing to this extent. I feel like crying in a corner.

Well, I haven't been stabbed before...

Why don't you just choose your friends better... or learn not to expect something from someone... I think that's the better option.

meh, i hate the standpoint of "Id rather have no friends". Even if you got stabbed in the back, you were still friends at one point in time, which means that you must have got SOME enjoyment/entertainment out of them. perhaps you just arent wisely choosing friends.....

oh well, dont sweat it. people are *******s. itll all be alright sometime. hope you get a reason or something.

I completly (sp?) agree with you Baka-Neko... People are the worst. The only that matters is the time you spend with someone, but you just gotta have clear that in some point the things are going to change. That's why we need to learn not to expect something from someone.

Did I made a point? or am I too confuse?

well, i didnt mean that all people are *******s, i just meant that some are. ive got friends that ive known for years. they know better than betraying me, ive got too much blackmail material on them if they ever did. not that i plan on any of them backstabbing me......i would trust most of my friends with just about anything. you just have to know how to pick out the loyal people =^_--

That is why I don't consider anyone a friend I consider them "Known Foe" cause all of them are backstabbers.

Ok, now that we are talking about this... How do we look/search/wants in a friend?

For me, I would say that someone that has common things with me (si we can have things to do or talk) and shows himself/herself to me as he/she really is...

How about you?

I agree Zeus...friendship should be based on trust and what you both like...it's like people who like the same things group together...or try to....

tipical teenage crap this is.
I have so many online friends that get stabbed like this in the back..... and is very normal around teenagers. Be patient, as you grwo up you will meet better persons.

Meh.. Friends do that...
You'll get over it...
And don't get me started on bad days...