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Old 09-02-2003, 09:38 PM
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Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

Eh, ok, I'll admit it ... for the past month or so (maybe longer), I've been super-depressed. And I've like ... thought about suicide and stuff .... and ... yeah. I know it's bad and everything, and I know that it's gay when people "attempt" it but never full-fill it beacause they just do it for attention. But eh, I dunno ... I don't even know why I'm posting this ... I just ... gotta talk about it or something *sigh.*

So anyways, yeah, what are your thoughts about suicide? (And I know everyone'll say somethinga bout how bad it is and stuff ... but I figured that I'd ask).

*BTW, today at school, I had a REALLY bad day .... and yet, it's only the first day of the school-year ...so... this year is gonna suck. I mean, if I fail even one class, then I have to take a fith year of high school ... and I know that I'll fail at least one class within the next three years >_< *

Well anyways... I just wanted to get this off my chest I think (even though it's not really off of it *sigh*).
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Old 09-02-2003, 09:45 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

school tends to do that. im always depressed/pissed off/sad so thats why i got a livejournal. i just write things down in their and it just helps me vent.

but suicide is really stupid because no emotions are worth giving up your only gift from God (sorry for offending all those athiests out there)
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Old 09-02-2003, 09:50 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

Um, azwethinkweiz ... I am athiest. But thanks.

And Kedisar, I'm reading that thing right now
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Old 09-02-2003, 09:53 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

If you think the school year will suck change something about it.
Alot of people feel they have nothing to live for when they try to commit suicide. And unfortunatly most of the time it's a passing feeling. People take things to far alot and dont give things time to even out. Like Kedisar said, wait a day or a week and something will change. if nothing does think about it and make something change before someone else does.
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Old 09-02-2003, 09:56 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

Well, I read that thing that Kedisar said, and it helped and all... but I don't think that I'd commit suicide ... at least not for a long while -- cause I kinda can't bring myself to ever do it... which is a good thing, I guess. But ... yeah....
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Old 09-02-2003, 09:58 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

well yeah, suicide isnt a pleasent thing. I have a friend who tried to kill himself (backfired though). its sad and kinda funny at the same time. I think i will tell the story.

He always complained because he said he was ugly and fat. He was very depressed because his "one true love" didnt love him back. He said he didnt care and just wanted her to be happy. Now dont get me wrong, my friend is very smart (127 iq- 3 more points and he'd be in mensa) But he attempted to commit suicide by hanging himself with a belt... attached to the airvent on his ceiling. Like I said the plan backfired. He stood on the stool and when he kicked it away, the vent (being held up by 2 small screws) just fell with him. He pulled it right out of the ceiling. It hit him on the head. He hasnt tried to kill himself lately, but he goes to a psychiatrist. He's pretty cool.

yea, so back on topic-

suicide=bad
living=good... or ok anyway.
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Old 09-03-2003, 10:36 AM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

yeah dude...please realize that no matter how sucky and messed up things around you seem to be getting, things could always turn for the better...

you have no idea what tomorrow could bring, and it could easily be the best day of your life...but suicide would kinda put a damper on that...

so dude, just hang in there and know ya gotcha fellow ZUers here that'll support ya...
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Old 09-03-2003, 11:52 AM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

As long as you are alive, things can always get better. There is always that potential. Suicide just ends it. Im sure if you do have a problem there are plenty of ZU'ers ready and willing to help you.
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Old 09-03-2003, 02:15 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

Woaw, easy. Don’t think about doing it.
I tried to a couple of times, and believe me, I'm grateful I never succeeded.
At the time I was heavily into self-destruction. It was the only think making me happy. After a looooooooooong period of fu***ng myself up pretty badly, I'm not totally cured (I'm still a little depressed and see my life as worthless).
But hey, I’ve got my life on track. Have a cool job (and just got an application form through from the Fire Brigade, so I hope that works out).
But, I've found that I have sooooooo many things worth living for all around me, as you will too, you may have to look really hard, but you will find them.

But, the main thing is, like everybody said, we will all try and help you. If you want to talk about it further, talk to somebody on the boards, or if your just lonely at the time.
Take care of yourself.
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Old 09-03-2003, 02:21 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

i myself feel a lot like that, but from what I know, getting a lot of feedback and stuff like this really helps. if you really really just need to do something about it, something you can't stand, tell someone who can help, but you have to change it. Everyone counts on this world, even the bad people, but we play are part, even the hackers and criminals, to the priest and game player, do something. you haven't done you goal in life, stay here til you do.
My advice, take the weekend off, get any homework you have this week done on friday, and if you have to go somewhere or something, get that done to, then get some rest or talk to someone. We can help some, but seeing someone in real life is better. Good luck and i hope to see you around here.
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Old 09-03-2003, 03:09 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

When I was younger, about 13 years old, I was pretty depressed. I ended up seeing a shrink, and did so for about a year. I guess I was just going through my "bad time". Everyone has a time like that in their life, especially teenagers, what with pressure from parents, school, and peers. You'll get over it, but if you want, you could talk to a counselor at school (I assume you are still in school, most people here are).
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Old 09-03-2003, 03:26 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

Ok, you really need to talk to someone close to you, to get yourself out of this slump. ******** happens, but you just have to let it pass and keep on living life. No matter how hard it gets, just keep on going, because someone is going to miss you.
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Old 09-03-2003, 03:31 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

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Old 09-03-2003, 03:53 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

Well, like I said, that link that Kedisar gave helped. And yeah, today seems to be going better ... I just hope it stays this way. But thanks everyone, I've been reading each of your posts and they made me feel better ... and it's good to know that I could talk to you guys about it
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Old 09-03-2003, 03:55 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

usually stuff like that does. Everyone, not just you has problems like that. its also good to get with groups who feel the same way, but only do that if you feel you need to.
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Old 09-03-2003, 03:56 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

If you teuly believe there is no god then what's left for you after you would suicide yourself... Nothing. So I'm just saying it's pretty dumb. Why kill yourself. Unless you don't enjoy life because you have hit on bump on the road. Who know maybr that road'll lead you to something great...Like a few people said why destroy that chance.
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Old 09-03-2003, 04:20 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

Once in everyone life is depressed. I was too. I'm just saying with many here. But I would NEVER EVER kill myself. I love my life that I have it. But I do tempt myself to self harm. Everything about kilingl yourself is stupid..

It's only the easy way out.

Does anyone want to live or die a coward. No I didn't think so.. You fight You live. as Kedisar already said. Wait. and think things can't get worse as you are strong and willing to live through and have self pride that you did not watse your life because for feeeling sorry for yourself.

So don't and be happy you have should have a life like this ((Yes I hate that coment too but its true))

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Old 09-03-2003, 04:22 PM
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Re: Thoughts on how bad suicide is...

Suicide is a losing gamble with fate!

See, you may be the person who is going to cure cancer one day. Or save a drowning dog. Or raise a loving family. Or create a video game series even better than Zelda. Or SOMETHING!

(MY POINT: Suicide impoverishes EVERYONE by taking away a person's ability to contribute. Forever and ever!)
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Old 09-03-2003, 04:23 PM
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