Tell me wut I did wrong, Girls you might be able to tell rather than guys......

The1DanK (12:03:19 AM): hello
LILQTPIE1283 (12:03:57 AM): hi
The1DanK (12:04:05 AM): what's up
LILQTPIE1283 (12:04:33 AM): nothing u
The1DanK (12:04:48 AM): jus chatten
LILQTPIE1283 (12:04:57 AM): with who
The1DanK (12:05:38 AM): like everybody lol
LILQTPIE1283 (12:05:52 AM): o
LILQTPIE1283 (12:06:00 AM): i didnt no u new everybody
The1DanK (12:06:09 AM): ahaha
The1DanK (12:06:14 AM): well...
The1DanK (12:06:21 AM): u'd be surprised
LILQTPIE1283 (12:06:30 AM): u dont no everybody in the world
The1DanK (12:06:46 AM): o_O
LILQTPIE1283 (12:06:50 AM): yea
The1DanK (12:06:52 AM): u THINK i dont kno everybody in the workd
The1DanK (12:06:55 AM): world*
LILQTPIE1283 (12:07:01 AM): and not everybody has on so u cant
The1DanK (12:07:16 AM): what about alot of phone lines
LILQTPIE1283 (12:07:16 AM): hmm u could but not every one can be online
LILQTPIE1283 (12:07:20 AM): cause some ppl r poor
LILQTPIE1283 (12:07:27 AM): ppl live in huts
The1DanK (12:07:30 AM): I am writting them letters
The1DanK (12:07:38 AM): and sending each a nickle
LILQTPIE1283 (12:07:42 AM): no roofs n u think they got online
The1DanK (12:07:44 AM): there is alot of people mind u
LILQTPIE1283 (12:07:51 AM): it aint funny i got a poor cousin
The1DanK (12:07:56 AM): i was poor
The1DanK (12:08:00 AM): i had 2 neighbord
The1DanK (12:08:05 AM): lived in a shak
The1DanK (12:08:07 AM): in idaho
The1DanK (12:08:17 AM): and my parents got alot of clocks for their wedding
The1DanK (12:08:20 AM): so they sold them for money
The1DanK (12:08:36 AM): so dont tell me i dont know poor
LILQTPIE1283 (12:08:44 AM): dont raise ur voiceto me
The1DanK (12:08:47 AM): I would eat roman noodle soup every freggin day for lunch
The1DanK (12:08:51 AM): lol
LILQTPIE1283 (12:09:01 AM): they live in a straw hut in bandgada
LILQTPIE1283 (12:09:06 AM): o ok
LILQTPIE1283 (12:09:17 AM): so u could afford food they eat ants
LILQTPIE1283 (12:09:23 AM): and eat birds and fish
LILQTPIE1283 (12:09:27 AM): and leaves
The1DanK (12:09:31 AM): why dont u help them?
LILQTPIE1283 (12:10:04 AM): cause
The1DanK (12:10:08 AM): I have the benifit of america and the us airforce suppling us food back then, otherwise we kinda didnt eat
LILQTPIE1283 (12:10:08 AM): no one helped us
The1DanK (12:10:20 AM): u needed help?
The1DanK (12:10:28 AM): but u livein lake view,all the rich people live there
The1DanK (12:10:30 AM): or well off
The1DanK (12:10:32 AM): not rich
LILQTPIE1283 (12:10:34 AM): my money didnt grow on trees
The1DanK (12:10:41 AM): since when!?
LILQTPIE1283 (12:10:43 AM): hmm no0o0o
LILQTPIE1283 (12:10:47 AM): i live in a hut
LILQTPIE1283 (12:10:54 AM): down buy the beach
The1DanK (12:11:01 AM): wow
The1DanK (12:11:06 AM): that'd be cool!
The1DanK (12:11:19 AM): is this julie?
LILQTPIE1283 (12:11:25 AM): NO WHY
The1DanK (12:11:37 AM): cause you never would talk like this haha
LILQTPIE1283 (12:11:40 AM): julie dont like talking to u
The1DanK (12:11:41 AM): and julie would mess with me
LILQTPIE1283 (12:11:47 AM): hm she dont like u
The1DanK (12:11:53 AM): i know
The1DanK (12:12:07 AM): dont know why, her and kristen are only 2 people i kno who dont like me at all
LILQTPIE1283 (12:12:36 AM): no there is prob more out there
LILQTPIE1283 (12:12:49 AM): since u no every one in the world
LILQTPIE1283 (12:13:00 AM): and they diont like u cause u always ask bout me
The1DanK (12:13:02 AM): yea, so what, those are the people I write small letters to
LILQTPIE1283 (12:13:04 AM): and it gets old
The1DanK (12:13:15 AM): say what...
The1DanK (12:13:27 AM): i dont like u anymore like that, i got tired of it
LILQTPIE1283 (12:13:43 AM): good
LILQTPIE1283 (12:13:46 AM): got tired ?
LILQTPIE1283 (12:13:47 AM): o ok
The1DanK (12:14:07 AM): and Im learning the benifits of being single lol
LILQTPIE1283 (12:14:29 AM): o ok
The1DanK (12:14:45 AM): hey hey, u wanna do me a favor and take that blunt truth test for me?
LILQTPIE1283 (12:15:08 AM): hey hey NOOOOOOOOOO*
The1DanK (12:15:18 AM): hmmm, wow
The1DanK (12:15:26 AM): ok, y u have caps?
The1DanK (12:15:28 AM): r u mad at me?
LILQTPIE1283 (12:16:57 AM): umm

LILQTPIE1283 (12:17:00 AM): can u take a hint ?
LILQTPIE1283 (12:17:03 AM): guess not
LILQTPIE1283 (12:17:04 AM): bye
The1DanK (12:17:06 AM): yea, i could
The1DanK (12:17:08 AM): tell me why
The1DanK (12:17:09 AM): first
The1DanK (12:17:15 AM): i didnt even do anything
The1DanK (12:18:47 AM): so what did I do? was it I got tired of trying to deal with the fact I knew u didnt like me, so I had to get off of it.
The1DanK (12:18:52 AM): what did I say? or do?
The1DanK (12:22:30 AM): please tell me
The1DanK (12:23:54 AM): please sarah come on
The1DanK (12:26:11 AM): -__-
The1DanK (12:26:19 AM): i gotta go, im sorry for making you mad



so tell me, what was it I said? I have several ideas, but my friends say she's a [idiot] forget her, my other friends say she thought I was making fun of poor people, and a couple say she was offended by the fact I was tired of dealing with the fact she didnt like me.

EDIT now that i reread.. i think it was the tired of it deal....

mmm yea its her being the [idiot] from the start, you were trying to turn it into one big joke and she was trying to turn it into one big fight. She's in the wrong, pms maybe?

maybe lol... but this is like one long pms cause this was on august 7th... this was the last time we talked...

whoa that is long lol
Hmm i dont kno, maybe at the time she had it, and that put into her mind that ure the bad guy, and its stayed that way in her head.

well... ive pissed her off alot for stupid things... but those were way worse (I think) than this... and she got over them...
and she NEVER talked like how she did in tha convo

Well something must have changed in her life, maybe someone she knew died or something? Or maybe a friend was over and telling her to do that stuff? She might have a boyfriend or an old one that she broke up with? Or maybe she just discided to change.

she has a bf, but we talked and never worried about it, and what do you meen change? what does changing have anything to do with us talken an shyt.

Well if she changed, she might have changed into a person that doesnt like you, or she might have had something really important on her mind or something and took it all out on you, or cause she had something on her mind she saw you as an annoyment, and hasnt forgiven you.

hmmm... maybe but i doubt it... i think shes just bein a *****

Exactly.

But maybe someone else here go over it and see if theres anything wrong. The only other thing I can think of is that she REALLY does have a poor cuzin.

yea... if so that'd suck.... but I almost seriously think, Julie was on her name, had a whole convo with me, then told sarah i said somthin.... but in a matter of a day!?

the thing is, I was serious about being poor, and i was pissed when she said that.

Ok then I've said to you in the chat room.

You don't need her. She MAY of been with a friend who was acting nasty and rude, BUT also she may be telling the truth for a rude and sick reason.

But still I say go on and be happy that you are only "friends with her" you can still care for her but not too attached that you are feeling down about it. Live your life and think why do I need that cheek.

You were only being friendly but she took it TOO FAR. That she was trying to prove and point but bring herself in as being poor and not helping them.

Then it's her lost that she treated you like that as you are as a friend worried why she won't talk to you. That is a good friend but she doesn't deserve you.

BE FREE LINK_MESS... BE FREE ::skips away::

GanonsD

I'll be free... but c.. i thought we were friends, until she stoped talkin to me for a month.... erm... school this year will be awkward...

Well, your first conversation with her in school will tell all. But, here's what I think. First, she was offended that you didn't know exACTly who it was you were talking to...that ALways gets girls (DISCLAIMER: in my experience.....mostly... ... ...)

Second, she didn't want to talk that day. Sure, she was on AIM, but she obviously didn't want to talk...my guess is she was busy chatting with someone else about whatever was REALly bugging her, or was actually ARGuing with someone and you kept talking to her so she had rather reflected some of her negative emotions onto YOU than against the person helping to GEnerate those feelings.

Third....well....where there is confusion follows all types of evil...all types of trouble.

NOW, for the Advice:

On the first day of school, walk up to her with your biggest smile and greet her, asking how she's been. Run off of your instincts after that, but DON't lose that friendly face unless it must be replaced by an expression of concern if she starts spilling her guts to you.

Okay, *drum music plays deeply in the background*

"DA COUNSELOR has SPOKen!!!"

Hahaha, I would have put it the EXACT same way Dave. Anywaves, I think you just need to do what BBD said, and be understanding of hersituation. Empathy is the key to understanding another's emotions.

well wut if she was just bein a ***** and/or i really did offend her with that last thing... i'll do that big smile thing btw lol.

Yup, exactly. Either way, you'll know so long as you keep smiling.

um... how will i kno? and, should i bring up this convo?