Love thread.

Thanks. Still thats the only girl in the school who dosn't flat out hate me. Unless you count the really popular ones who always bug me. But I do not think they like me they just like to annoy me. I do have a freind who is a girl though but neither of us is interseted. well can anyone help me find out what is wrong with me?????? And I think she did have a bf.

Okay, you are 13. You have like, the rest of your life to think about love. For now, remember love isn't everything and ignore it atleast until you're 15

I guess.....

Originally Posted by Lord_myles

Thanks. Still thats the only girl in the school who dosn't flat out hate me. Unless you count the really popular ones who always bug me. But I do not think they like me they just like to annoy me. I do have a freind who is a girl though but neither of us is interseted. well can anyone help me find out what is wrong with me?????? And I think she did have a bf.

There isn't anything wrong with you. You probably aren't ready yet. I'm 15 and I don't have a girlfriend, mainly because I don't see a point until I can drive (when I'm 16). Also, relationships aren't important for you yet. Hell, they aren't even important at my age.

Originally Posted by Leviathan

There isn't anything wrong with you. You probably aren't ready yet. I'm 15 and I don't have a girlfriend, mainly because I don't see a point until I can drive (when I'm 16). Also, relationships aren't important for you yet. Hell, they aren't even important at my age.

Hee Hee you could say that. you could also say that almost every other kid in the school has a bf/gf and well im not one of them....

Love in real life. Hmmmm... it's not likely anyone I know will find this site and realize that Sage of Lightning is Chris. Okay, I never did have too many crushes, and I only danced with a girl once (but screwed up, fell, got stomped all over on the dance floor, and laughed at). I had a huge crush on this girl back in elementary school, but I was always a jerk to her because I didn't want people to know. Last year in science class, I had a crush on this girl in science. I was so obsessed, I forgot about Zelda. I spent my free time making sure I looked good, practicing with my guitar (plugged into my amplifier on volume 10) and overall making sure I impressed her. I dreamed about her. I tried to put on paper what I felt, but I couldn't. But I was so afraid... to tell her... I didn't. My science teacher kept bashing my reputation with detentions for the most ridiculous reasons, always stopping the lesson to tell me to 'not lean back' or 'get on the right page and stop daydreaming.' She saw me as an idiot... or did she? It was all that mattered... SHE was all that mattered to me. Then, when I had finally had enough, I said I wanted to beat her up and then I told her what I'd like her to stop. It was misconcieved as a 'threat to harm a teacher' and I was long-term suspended for nine months... and now I don't even know her. Every bit of this is true... okay, feels good to put that on paper... um, I mean, computer screen. That's all for now, whenever I have a small crush on a girl, I'm just in the wrong place at the wrong time and get my reputation screwed up again. I'm kind of falling in love with Zelda7333 over the internet... :embrsd: I sound like an idiot, right?

Yes, it's true that I cut and pasted that.

Originally Posted by Lord_myles

Hee Hee you could say that. you could also say that almost every other kid in the school has a bf/gf and well im not one of them....

The only girlfriend I ever had was in 6th grade. I only asked a girl out because it seemed like the "cool" thing that all my friends were doing. The girl I asked out I really didn't know, I think we just both wanted to say "I have a girlfriend/boyfriend". It lasted a few weeks and I put off dating for a while. I'm sure most of the relationships in your grade are somewhat similar.

Is this love or not? This is the question I ask myself every day when I talk to this girl. She is a friend and we have known each other for about 2 years. I feel like I want to be a around her she is kinda popular and around my same age. I just can't really understand my feelings. Can some 1 help me?

What I would do is definatley just relax and just wait, you'll know if you really like her or not. It may take a while, but when you know you'll really know.

Alright... I have had this problem here... so here's the story. I had this friend... oh, I guess I met him about 7 years ago, and he's about 1 1/2 years older... We were really good friends right? Well I moved, not far, like seriously 6 blocks away maybe. (small town...) And slowly the two of us grew apart, though whenever we saw each other we could still talk. Then after like 2 years, I developed a crush on him. (of course, how many of you saw that one comming???) Though it's been this whole year, we started out just saying hi, and nothin else anymore. And then last month he found out that I liked him. He tell's me it doesn't bother him, and stuff. (I can still talk to him online, it's odd I know) But it doesn't matter he still won't talk to me face to face. He is a shy guy though, it's just I don't get it. Anyone care to try and explain why my old best friend won't talk to me anymore?? Suuure I like him, but it was before that he stopped talkin to me, I guess it's because we grew apart but when I tell him I just wanna be friends again don't you think that would change something? I really don't know what I should do...

Originally Posted by Cedric

Is this love or not? This is the question I ask myself every day when I talk to this girl. She is a friend and we have known each other for about 2 years. I feel like I want to be a around her she is kinda popular and around my same age. I just can't really understand my feelings. Can some 1 help me?

Alright, before I start, we need to know how old you are. It's hard to give good advice if we don't know whether we are talking to a 6th grader or a 20 something.

Hello, I just joined and I was going through this thread, and my first question is: Am I the only one who's not still in high school in here? The answers to most of these questions will differ depending on whether you are in high school, college, in your late 20s, or an old pervert.

Anyway, to the kid who's being bullied: Highschool is actually a mini version of society, only more cruel and rigid. Most people will fall into a category and stay there until they graduate, so you need to deal with this. The good news is that college will probably be much better for you. But anyway, sometimes you can escape your class. Doing something drastic like what I'm about to suggest works better the younger your peers are.

I believe you should kick somebody's ass in front of several people. And that should be somebody bigger than you, even a little, ideally one of the older kids bothering you. Under no circumstances do that when some of his friends are around, because you'll get your ass kicked. You can do it, but it'll take much more guts than physical power. You'll need to strike fast and hard. If you punch his nose in, he'll be blinded for a few seconds. If you kick him in the nuts, or kick his knee kinda hard and outwards or strike him in the throat he will be incapacitated (careful with the last one, as it might kill somebody) and then finish him off. The point is that most of these bullies pick on people who they perceive to be weak and not dangerous. If you make a powerful and sudden attack like that, chances are they will be psychologically shocked as much as physically, and that'll give you a great advantage in winning. Remember, this really takes guts and you can't do it if you're doubtful. Practise physical attacks to get psychologically used to them; don't try this for the first time on the field. And if you attack first, you absolutely must not lose. You must decide for yourself.

Originally Posted by jimmypage

Hello, I just joined and I was going through this thread, and my first question is: Am I the only one who's not still in high school in here? The answers to most of these questions will differ depending on whether you are in high school, college, in your late 20s, or an old pervert.

Anyway, to the kid who's being bullied: Highschool is actually a mini version of society, only more cruel and rigid. Most people will fall into a category and stay there until they graduate, so you need to deal with this. The good news is that college will probably be much better for you. But anyway, sometimes you can escape your class. Doing something drastic like what I'm about to suggest works better the younger your peers are.

I believe you should kick somebody's ass in front of several people. And that should be somebody bigger than you, even a little, ideally one of the older kids bothering you. Under no circumstances do that when some of his friends are around, because you'll get your ass kicked. You can do it, but it'll take much more guts than physical power. You'll need to strike fast and hard. If you punch his nose in, he'll be blinded for a few seconds. If you kick him in the nuts, or kick his knee kinda hard and outwards or strike him in the throat he will be incapacitated (careful with the last one, as it might kill somebody) and then finish him off. The point is that most of these bullies pick on people who they perceive to be weak and not dangerous. If you make a powerful and sudden attack like that, chances are they will be psychologically shocked as much as physically, and that'll give you a great advantage in winning. Remember, this really takes guts and you can't do it if you're doubtful. Practise physical attacks to get psychologically used to them; don't try this for the first time on the field. And if you attack first, you absolutely must not lose. You must decide for yourself.

Oh. Dear. Lord. that is the worst advice I've ever heard. Please, don't tell me this is how you solve your own problems.

I specified that this applies to highschool and before. This is definitely not how I solve any of my problems, but different rules apply in different situations.

Originally Posted by jimmypage

I specified that this applies to highschool and before. This is definitely not how I solve any of my problems, but different rules apply in different situations.

Don't give advise about highschool seeing as you are not in it. Your perspective of high school is based on the media. It's not as uch as a food chain as you think. In latin for exmple I'll get my work done with the kids of my same intellegence and then go talk to the so called "sk8rs" or whatever they're called. Trying to beat up spmeone bigger than you is a no no, unless you know you can win. Chances are you can't. That was craptacular advise, and eeing how I am groosly off topic I am sorry, but I had to savew that poor kid from getting his ass handed to him.

Don't give advise about highschool seeing as you are not in it.

This sounds to me like saying a psychiatrist should not treat a psychopath, because she is not one. I'm not using the analogy to imply I'm an expert on the subject, because I'm not. However, I do have an interest in human psychology and behavioural science or social science from a scientific perspective (not as in philosophical theories). Therefore, I think I'm in the position to formulate a perfectly valid opinion on these matters. Simply being in highschool doesn't make you an authority on the issue; you need good arguments (and no, repeating mine doesn't count).

Originally Posted by jimmypage

This sounds to me like saying a psychiatrist should not treat a psychopath, because she is not one. I'm not using the analogy to imply I'm an expert on the subject, because I'm not. However, I do have an interest in human psychology and behavioural science or social science from a scientific perspective (not as in philosophical theories). Therefore, I think I'm in the position to formulate a perfectly valid opinion on these matters. Simply being in highschool doesn't make you an authority on the issue; you need good arguments (and no, repeating mine doesn't count).

Talling the kid to try to fight someone he can't win against is plain stupid, he can get seriously hurt. It wasn't a perfectly good opinion, it was a dangerous one. I've said so much **** in school, I'm suprised I havent got my ass kicked yet.

Originally Posted by Lord_myles

I uhhh kind of have the same problem. I have a major crush on this girl but she seems to well kind not mind hanging out but once a traitor told her I liked her. She came to my locker so mad she looked like she would kill me. Then I played stupid and act like I did not know what she was talking about. She was well still like freindly with me like we could talk (not like sit together at lunch but talk in my school between the two bus loadings.) I like her a lot because she is a really good person. I want to ask her out but I not that good-looking or popular. I am also afraid of a big black eye o*.Can anyone help me?????? _
:embrsd: :embrsd:

Well,I was in that situation not too long ago and I talked about that problem in the old love thread but,what I did was I tried not to look at her and ignore her or you could try and get
a friend to talk to her or you cansomehow get popular and then she might'll talk to you.

Originally Posted by Mokujin

Well,I was in that situation not too long ago and I talked about that problem in the old love thread but,what I did was I tried not to look at her and ignore her or you could try and get
a friend to talk to her or you cansomehow get popular and then she might'll talk to you.

I over it I took Princess tetras advice. I hate it but well it makes my life easier. Oh and she does talk to me.....

Originally Posted by jimmypage

I believe you should kick somebody's ass in front of several people. And that should be somebody bigger than you, even a little, ideally one of the older kids bothering you. Under no circumstances do that when some of his friends are around, because you'll get your ass kicked. You can do it, but it'll take much more guts than physical power. You'll need to strike fast and hard. If you punch his nose in, he'll be blinded for a few seconds. If you kick him in the nuts, or kick his knee kinda hard and outwards or strike him in the throat he will be incapacitated (careful with the last one, as it might kill somebody) and then finish him off. The point is that most of these bullies pick on people who they perceive to be weak and not dangerous. If you make a powerful and sudden attack like that, chances are they will be psychologically shocked as much as physically, and that'll give you a great advantage in winning. Remember, this really takes guts and you can't do it if you're doubtful. Practise physical attacks to get psychologically used to them; don't try this for the first time on the field. And if you attack first, you absolutely must not lose. You must decide for yourself.

I hate to say this, but this guy is right. People are *******s, and to stop making fun of you they need a good reason. One time in 5th grade this "hardcore" kid was just a total ****** to me. he acted all cool and would do ***** like pulling my chair out from under me. He would also call me many bad names. So one day, I got a "hey f****t". I tottaly ripped him to shreads and he had to go to the hospital. Nobody dared pick on me after that and my reputation has stick with me to middle school...really sometimes you have to take things into your own hands. Im really bein serious.

Okay, let's stop posting about the bully situation. Apperently no one really knows what they're talking about, and it doesn't make much of a difference anyway, as this is the wrong thread for that. If you are being bullied and need help, go to your school's administrators. Bullying is harrasment, and a very big offense. I know kids whose families have been in huge lawsuits for their child's problem with "bullying" others. Even if High School is like the real world, you wouldn't just beat someone up to fix your problems.