Help Me Please!

I have a huge problem! The situation is that: I earn £10 a week but I am always having to pay it back to people! well thats not the problem here it is: My friend wants me to go some were on a saturday (the day I get paid) but he wants me to miss one day of my job! I cant get it through to him that I need to get the money first! I dont really wont to go with him but if I say that he will think that I dont like him. you guys are my only hope. HELP! :moodswing :disappoin

Originally Posted by ShAzow!

I have a huge problem! The situation is that: I earn £10 a week but I am always having to pay it back to people!

If that is the case, what is the point in your job? If you earn £10 a week and you have to pay it back, then what's the point in earning that money if you have to pay it back?

Originally Posted by darklink88

If that is the case, what is the point in your job? If you earn £10 a week and you have to pay it back, then what's the point in earning that money if you have to pay it back?

He did say that wasn't his question, but the answer to that would be that if he didn't earn £10 a week, he'd keep owing more back. At least with that much money he can gradually get himself out of debt.

Now, to your question-

Originally Posted by ShAzow!

My friend wants me to go some were on a saturday (the day I get paid) but he wants me to miss one day of my job! I cant get it through to him that I need to get the money first! I dont really wont to go with him but if I say that he will think that I dont like him.

First off, no friend would let, never mind want you to risk losing your job. The reason that you can't get through to him is because he doesn't care.
Don't say that you don't want to go with him-arrange it for another day after saturday, or just tell him to go with someone else, as you can't spare the money.

Indeed. Just tell your friend that you can't make it. If you feel that your job and the money that comes with it are more important, then reject your friend's invitation. It's one way or another. There's no in between other than to arrange to go out on another day.

Cool thanks guys. I will take your advies and use it. Your right I should just tell him to go with someone else :cool: :confused:

Originally Posted by ShAzow!

I have a huge problem! The situation is that: I earn £10 a week but I am always having to pay it back to people! well thats not the problem here it is: My friend wants me to go some were on a saturday (the day I get paid) but he wants me to miss one day of my job! I cant get it through to him that I need to get the money first! I dont really wont to go with him but if I say that he will think that I dont like him. you guys are my only hope. HELP! :moodswing :disappoin

lol....I have a similar situation.....except I'm not in debt. I'm always loaning money to people. I can't help it. It's a sickness. Anyways, the thing is, no one has payed me back, and now I'm really poor, and I only make $10 a week, yet am too young to apply forr a job. :mad:

Heh, I know where your coming from. When I was younger I spent any money I had, so I put my money in a spot and tried not to take any money from there. Problem was though; I forgot where I put it; so I ended up with no money

I'm better at spending money now; I only buy stuff I really need. That's why I don't wear any pants Its bad paying to go out places; It doesn't usually work; but you can ask your parents for some or a loan or something

Gee here I am worrying about my problems and yet you have some of your own I discoverd (well for me anyway) when your not erning money its acsurely easyer caus you dont have to worry what ya gonna spend it on. I hope it helps :cool: