Love

Originally Posted by Yami

3 words, 8 letters.

ily.

Your latest posts put me under the impression that you're absolutely wasted.

Originally Posted by Jodd

Are you 14? You sound 14.

Actually I'm 21. That was a retarded remark. How does a 14 year old sound on the internet? Post doesn't make noise, they're typed.

Either way, I think a 14 year old would have a better shot at dating an adult then you would from your lame post I've read

^ No, I agree with him, you do sound 14.

^ No, I'm with Happy Mask on this one.

^ Let's all dance a deleted posts conga!
Cha-cha-cha-cha-chaaaa-CHA!
Cha-cha-cha-cha-chaaaa-CHA!

But seriously, kids don't know anything about love.

Do you know anything about love?

Originally Posted by Dread

Do you know anything about love?

Didn't say I do, pard, so I reckon no

Am I going to be the first to ask, What is Love?

I won't do this quiz, because it seems pointless unless you've been in a couple of relationships, and because people have already done it for laughs.

Hmm...

So kids don't know what love is.
Tonchiki doesn't know what love is.
Therefore Tonchiki is a kid.

Originally Posted by Dread

Hmm...

So kids don't know what love is.
Tonchiki doesn't know what love is.
Therefore Tonchiki is a kid.

Gee, that's the most infallible logic I've ever heard.

Originally Posted by Dread

Hmm...

So kids don't know what love is.
Tonchiki doesn't know what love is.
Therefore Tonchiki is a kid.

Just popping in to say that that logic doesn't follow.

It'd be more accurate to ask how he knows others don't know anything about love if he doesn't know anything about love himself.

Originally Posted by Tonchiki

^ No, I agree with him, you do sound 14.

I agree that you're probably just like him for making the same retarded remark.

Originally Posted by Alonely

It'd be more accurate to ask how he knows others don't know anything about love if he doesn't know anything about love himself.

By simple virtue that they haven't really experienced it yet. They're kids. I haven't experienced it either, so I don't know anything about it either. But the difference is I'm not a kid, unless you follow Dread's logic, but then you'd have to have about as much brain power as a fruit salad.

Originally Posted by Happy Mask

I agree that you're probably just like him for making the same retarded remark.

Using the word "retarded" makes people sound so smart

Originally Posted by Alonely

Just popping in to say that that logic doesn't follow.

It'd be more accurate to ask how he knows others don't know anything about love if he doesn't know anything about love himself.

Logic? Where?

A valid statement is not necessarily a sound statement. It has to be true as well.

Time to make myself feel lonely by talking about love and my lack of it!



L is for the way you look at me...

The kind of person you're first attracted to?
Someone who laughs a lot.

Do you believe in love at first sight?
Perhaps attraction, but love takes time.

How do you show someone you are interested?
I'm still trying to figure this one out. ;-;

Is there such thing as a perfect relationship?
Probably not. But the best it can be in to be able to overlook the faults.

How do you know when someone thinks you're attractive?
♥♥♥♥, I dunno. Never been in the situation, personally.

How do you know it's right?
I'll get back to you on that one.

Could you date someone who has been only your friend for a long time?
Ooh. Sheesh, I dunno. It would be really awkward.

What do you wear to attract the opposite sex?
I just try not to try too hard. I wear jeans and a T-Shirt. Occasionally I'll wear something fancier, like a button-up shirt or something.

What makes someone sexy?
A happy, joyfull kind of disposition. Being cute doesn't help either. (Just to clarify, I really don't find the mainstream "sexy" to be all that sexy)

Are you uncomfortable staring in to someones eyes who likes you?
I'm uncomfortable staring into anyone's eyes. But yes.

Do you come across as confident, sexy, friendly, subtle, or innocent?
I probably come across as friendly, innocent and totally unsure of myself. Heh.

When someone catches your eye, do you try to make eye contact or avoid it?
I go for it. Better to at least try to be outgoing when the chance arises.

Your favorite colors of eyes in the opposite sex:
Heh? Never really thought about it... any color is beautiful on the right person, I guess.

What makes you sexy?
...


O is for the only one I see...

Describe your significant other or crush:
Good humored, a little unconfident, friendly, hard working. (And short)

When are you the happiest in a relationship?
Mmmmmmmm. To be announced.

Do you believe in soul mates?
Well, yes and no. If your soul mate slips through your fingers, you could find another one... there isn't just "the one" waiting for you.

Have you found yours?
No.

How many people have broken your heart?
None... yet.

Would you ever cheat or have you ever cheated?
NO. No no no nonononononooooooo. I'm not like that at all. (Not that I've been given the chance)

Have you ever loved someone who didn't love you back?
Eh heh heh... I don't know yet. It's a definite possibility.

Have you ever given someone your entire heart?
No, but I hope to.

What kind of things do you do to show someone you are theirs?
Information not available at this time.

Is there ever a happily ever after?
Yeah. Never a perfect one, but... a happy one none-the-less.

Do you want to grow old with someone or be single?
Grow old. Wait, you make it sound like being single makes you immortal...

Are you a hopeless romantic?
I'm not that bad.

Whats the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?
Nothing yet.

What are you like when you're in love?
Not that far yet- I wouldn't know.

Describe your dream person.
I wouldn't even try- If I came up with a dream partner, then great ones wouldn't seem good enough. I'll just let what comes my way come my way.


V is very, very extraordinary...

What has been the weirdest date you've ever been on?
Haven't.

And the very best?
...

Whats the most money a boyfriend or girlfriend has spent on you?
...

And the most you've spent on them?
...

Which one of your relationships was the shortest?
...

Which was the longest?
...

Are you friends with any of your exes?
...

Do you wish you were back together with any of your exes?
...

Do you ever have dreams about your exes?
...

If you want to get married, what age?
25-30. Young enough to be spontaneous and stuff, but old enough to not be to terribly stupid.

Are you open or closed because of past hurt?
No hurt- still open.

What is your philosophy on love?
Don't have one set up- sorry 'bout that.

Who would you die for?
Right now? Well... no one yet.
Now I feel sad and a little guilty.

Who do you secretly yearn for?
M-
No wait, never mind. I'll keep it a secret.


E is even more than anyone that you adore...

The reason you love your significant other or crush:
Um, wow. I don't know. This is getting personal, shut up.

Would you change yourself for someone you loved?
No. If they don't like me the way I am now, then it wouldn't have worked in the first place.

Would you give up a dream for someone you loved?
No.

Would you quit a job for someone you loved?
If there was a good reason for it. If they were just like "If you loved me you would quit your job" I probably wouldn't do it.

The thing you love about relationships:
I don't know yet.

The thing you love about being single:
Nothing at all.

The person who's on your mind right now:
Mysterious M person.

Do you believe in love at first sight?
Not really.But, who knows, right?

How do you show someone you are interested?

Talk to them often, do nice things, etc.

Is there such thing as a perfect relationship?
In some way or another I'm sure. I would classify a relationship as perfect if it seems rather successful. Though no one is perfect.

How do you know when someone thinks you're attractive?
HAHAHA

How do you know it's right?
I don't think you do know when it's right.

Could you date someone who has been only your friend for a long time?
Depends on the situation.

What do you wear to attract the opposite sex?
I don't attract the opposite sex. I don't attract sex at all.

What makes someone sexy?
Being themselves.

Are you uncomfortable staring in to someones eyes who likes you?
Depends. I'm kind of insecure like that.

Do you come across as confident, sexy, friendly, subtle, or innocent?
Friendly, innocent, I guess.

When someone catches your eye, do you try to make eye contact or avoid it?
50/50. Depends who it is, and my relation to the person.

What makes you sexy?
When I shave my legs dry. Obviously. [/sarcasm]

Do you believe in soul mates?
I believe you have someone, more than one person I'm sure, out there who can complement you quite well.

How many people have broken your heart?
One. More than once.

Would you ever cheat or have you ever cheated?
Hopefully not, and yes.

Have you ever loved someone who didn't love you back?
Love is gay.

Is there ever a happily ever after?
There's a happy.

Do you want to grow old with someone or be single?
Depends on the day and my mood.

Are you a hopeless romantic?
I am. Not extremely so, but I am.

Describe your dream person.
As long as this person is confident and motivated, that's all that matters.

Are you open or closed because of past hurt?
I wouldn't say I'm closed, but I am scared. Kind of.. scared. I'd let someone in, but I'd be scared/paranoid of what would happen. So, I guess I'm kind of closed.

What is your philosophy on love?
1 Corinthians 13:4-7, more or less.

Who would you die for?
Guess we'll have to see if the moment ever arises.

Who do you secretly yearn for?
Niel Patrick Harris.

Would you change yourself for someone you loved?
Not something I consider to be natural. Say, if I were jealous, or overly angry, then yeah, I would work on improving that, because I could possibly damage someone I loved in the future.

Would you give up a dream for someone you loved?
Why would I have to?

Would you quit a job for someone you loved?
See above.

The thing you love about being single:
It's safe, I suppose.

The person who's on your mind right now:
Neil Patrick Harris.

Sure, let's see how far this goes.

The kind of person you're first attracted to:
Pretty, intelligent girls who play video games.

Do you believe in love at first sight?
A little, but I'm not sure I'd call it that.

How do you show someone you are interested?
I tell them.

Is there such thing as a perfect relationship?
No. Perfection is unattainable.

How do you know when someone thinks you're attractive?
They've met me.

How do you know it's right?
What, that I'm attractive? Because it's a fact.

Could you date someone who has been only your friend for a long time?
Depends what you call a long time. Probably.

What do you wear to attract the opposite sex?
Clothes, or nothing. Depends what time it is.

What makes someone sexy?
Depends who you ask. For me, displaying similar interests to me and dressing attractively but not sluttily.

Are you uncomfortable staring in to someones eyes who likes you?
Didn't anyone ever tell you it's rude to stare?

Do you come across as confident, sexy, friendly, subtle, or innocent?
Confident, yes. Sexy, frequently. Friendly, rarely. Subtle, like a bomb. Innocent, not in the least.

When someone catches your eye, do you try to make eye contact or avoid it?
Avoid, generally. Remember what I said about staring?

Your favorite colors of eyes in the opposite sex:
No clue. I couldn't even tell you what colour my fiancee's eyes are.

What makes you sexy?
I really wish I knew.

Describe your significant other or crush:
Refer to first question.

When are you the happiest in a relationship?
When I'm with who I'm with.

Do you believe in soul mates?
As in, the right person for everyone? Absolutely.

Have you found yours?
I certainly hope so.

How many people have broken your heart?
None, but I broke my spine once.

Would you ever cheat or have you ever cheated?
Never have, never would. I give extensive sermons to the unfaithful about what sort of torment they'll endure for their sins. They're quite entertaining.

Have you ever loved someone who didn't love you back?
I don't make a point of overstating base attraction as anything higher. So no.

Have you ever given someone your entire heart?
Damn it, I'm a computer scientist, not a surgeon.

What kind of things do you do to show someone you are theirs?
I ask them to move in with me and get engaged to them.

Is there ever a happily ever after?
Not in the kind of movies I watch.

Do you want to grow old with someone or be single?
Grow old with someone. And not just anyone, either.

Are you a hopeless romantic?
Romantic, certainly, but I like to think I'm rather good at it so 'hopeless' is a bit unfair.

Whats the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?
Couldn't tell you. Or don't want to, I'm not sure which.

What are you like when you're in love?
See what I'm like now? It's a bit like that.

Describe your dream person.
I already did.

What has been the weirdest date you've ever been on?
First one ever. Bumped into a friend in town and he ended up cockblocking for hours on end. And then my TV exploded.

And the very best?
First time she spent the night at my place.

Whats the most money a boyfriend or girlfriend has spent on you?
We went halves on an Xbox 360 and a bunch of games, so I reckon it'd be about that much.

And the most you've spent on them?
See above.

Which one of your relationships was the shortest?
This one, so far.

Which was the longest?
This one, so far.

Are you friends with any of your exes?
I don't really have any.

Do you wish you were back together with any of your exes?
You need to learn to pay attention to what I write. I'm sick of repeating myself.

Do you ever have dreams about your exes?
WHAT DID I JUST SAY.

If you want to get married, what age?
Twenty-one.

Are you open or closed because of past hurt?
I can't even begin to guess what this means.

What is your philosophy on love?
I'm no philosopher. I just do things.

Who would you die for?
Nobody. If I were to die to save another, then I would force them to live thier life without me. I can think of no worse fate for the one I live.

Who do you secretly yearn for?
Secretly? Please. Secrets are for cowards and spies.

The reason you love your significant other or crush:
I have answered this question several times already.

Would you change yourself for someone you loved?
I'll change my shirt now and then. I'm close to flawless already.

Would you give up a dream for someone you loved?
Only if you're talking about waking up, which I do most days.

Would you quit a job for someone you loved?
When I quit jobs, it's usually for more tangible reasons.

The thing you love about relationships:
The girl in it.

The thing you love about being single:
That whole "being lonely and bitter while every man around you has a girl on his arm" thing is pretty cool.

The person who's on your mind right now: Jimi Hendrix. Is this relevant at all?

Originally Posted by Bravo

What with your frivolous use of the word "retarded", and your uber-offence at a harmless comment, I'm afraid now it's MY turn to say you sound 14. Feel free to get technical about the particular turn of phrase I've used, ignoring the actual point behind it.

Sure...

I'vecommented on some peoples' answers, but have not answered this myself, so lest I be a hypocrite, here I go-

Do you believe in love at first sight?
Not love, but definitely an instant mutual connection/attraction. Not all couples experience it, sometimes the relationship starts and grows naturally.

How do you show someone you are interested?

make time for them, and do nice things for them. Eventually, it may get to the point where I just tell them, if things don't just naturally end up in an obvious understanding. (I mean if we're hanging out and all of a sudden we're holding hands, I think it's obvious!)

Is there such thing as a perfect relationship?
no. like Liah, said, people can be perfect for each other but perfection is not something someone can undertake as a goal.

How do you know when someone thinks you're attractive?
They tell me...

How do you know it's right?
I don't know. There have been relationships that I felt were right, only to fall apart years/months later. You just have to take things one day at a time, because the second you put a label or status on something, life throws you a curve ball.

Could you date someone who has been only your friend for a long time?
probably. I don't have any friends like that now that I could see myself with, but hypothetically speaking, sure.

What do you wear to attract the opposite sex?
something that's a nice color that compliments my hair and eyes, and flatters my figure.

What makes someone sexy?
BJ had a great answer- Being themselves.

Are you uncomfortable staring in to someones eyes who likes you?
If I don't like them back.

Do you come across as confident, sexy, friendly, subtle, or innocent?
Friendly and innocent, I think. It must be the glasses. People just assume at first that I'm a naiive bookworm girl. I remember in High School , some girl thought it was weird that I said the word "penis" . She thought I wouldn't even know what one was or looked like. I was like COME ON!!

When someone catches your eye, do you try to make eye contact or avoid it?
Depends on if I'm in an environment where I feel comfortable, and how much I like the person.

What makes you sexy?
um... I don't know! Ask my b/f!

Do you believe in soul mates?
like others have said, I believe there are several compatible partners for any given person.

How many people have broken your heart?
a few.

Would you ever cheat or have you ever cheated?
I did once, and will never again.

Have you ever loved someone who didn't love you back?
no.

Is there ever a happily ever after?
no. that makes it seem as if there's some sort of level of love to attain, and once you're there, you don't have to work anymore. maintaining a relationship is an ongoing thing.

Do you want to grow old with someone or be single?
grow old

Are you a hopeless romantic?
nope

Describe your dream person.
sensitive to my feelings/needs, funny, cute, smart, good in bed
Oh, in other words- My man!

Are you open or closed because of past hurt?
I'm still pretty open.

What is your philosophy on love?
It's not some magical goal you reach then sit back and be happy forever. you must always pay attention to potential problems, and remember it's often the simple things that matter most.

Who would you die for?
Brian, my mom, dad... that's probably it.

Who do you secretly yearn for?
Niel Patrick Harris. <--- LOL @ BJ! that's gotta be a joke....
seriously- I don't really secretly yearn for anyone, lol!

Would you change yourself for someone you loved?
If I knew that the thing to change was negatively impacting myself and my relationship, then I'd try.

Would you give up a dream for someone you loved?
maybe. I really don't have any big dreams to give up.

Would you quit a job for someone you loved?
yes, if he wanted me to quit for a good reason (If he was going to get a big important job somewhere and we needed to move, and provided that we'd have enough money to live).

The thing you love about being single:
I can go wherever I want whenever I want and see whomever I want. But I don't feel the need to see other people or go too many places now that I have my man at home.

The person who's on your mind right now:
Brian! <3


EDIT: I just realized that a bunch of questions aren't on here... I copypasta'd from Liah... I think I'll have to re-do this and answer all the questions.

Originally Posted by Happy Mask

Sure...

You're good, kid. Can I also join the band wagon? You sound 14.