Hey, when it come to acting, make-up is fine. (Some people need it!

) But, outside of acting, why else would a guy ware make-up unless he was trying to be different, and why be different unless you want to attract attention to yourself?
To me, make-up on guys and girls wearing boy's clothes is OK. Make-up is like jewelry. You (normally) wear it to make yourself look better (or at least think you do). I myself have worn jewelry of sorts. I'm not getting anything pierced, though, not that it's wrong, it just plain hurts!
If guys want to wear make-up and dress differently, that's OK. It's what going on inside that counts.