I went to community college and got a two year degree. Financial aid covered everything and then some.

Then I tried going to the big University in town. Big mistake. I didn't want to get a loan so I payed out of pocket. I eventually got behind in the money I was paying them (very little money coming in from my part time work). I eventually ended up in collections. My mom said she would help me with the cost, but she ended up with financial difficulties of her own. I ended up paying off the whole balance. I was relieved, but kind of ticked that they twisted my arm to get it, even though I wanted to pay a little each month.

The work load with community college and University was about the same.

I wouldn't recommend alcohol. If you do, make sure to do it in moderation. Getting drunk can lead to life ruining consequences.