What do you look for in a friendship? A romantic relationship?
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06-20-2012, 09:16 AM
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Re: What do you look for in a friendship? A romantic relationship?
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(in all seriousness, I've learnt that what I thought I WANTED in a romantic relationship was not the same thing as what I NEEDED. I could elaborate, but I've got to go flip my French toast whoops, bbl)
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In a friendship, I don't really look for much. Honestly one of my newest friends, who I've spoken to for uhhbout 3 weeks now, we don't have a huge amount in common. However, we both still communicate well and enjoy each other's company. That's basically all I look for on the surface. I don't expect them to be there for me when I'm down, since... how can I? I can't test to see if they will be there, and I dunno. I just try not to get my expectations up.
However, it's a huge surprise for me when friends really
there for me in times of need.
have both been a huge help to me recently, and like. I mean we have been talking so regularly you would not believe and helping me get through my issues. I never asked either of them to be there for me(even if I initiated conversation once or twice) and neither complained.
YES I'M SAYING YOU ARE GOOD FRIENDS.
But originally, those were both two people who I just got on with really now, but because they were there for me when I was down and helped pick me back up, they're now two of my closest friends ever.
So, that's what I look for in a friendship. Someone who I can entertain and be entertained by, and hopefully when the time comes they'll be there for me. If not, then I don't think less of them.
Uhh... Romantic relationships are. Kinda tough. Because I've only ever been in one, and it basically just started out as a friendship and grew really quickly. I don't look for any more virtues than I do in a friendship... it just sorta depends how like. Compatible, we are? I dunno how to explain it. But I don't really look for anything in particular. I assume that we'll be closer than average friends, but I can't really say there's anything specifically that makes me want to be in a relationship with someone instead of a friendship.
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