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Originally Posted by Bibu-chan  I've tried to get him to but you don't know him...he's really stubborn when he wants to be...he refuses to go see a doctor and he insists that the pain will go away...he just can't grasp the concept that its been ther for 15 years and that if it was gonna go it would have gone by now right? |
He is probably scared too, he just doesn't want to show it. We, men, always have a hard time showing our weaknesses. Being sick, needing to go to the doctor are stuff we don't want to do. We are strong. We can fix it by ourselves.
Explain to him that you are really worried, you want him to go see a doctor. Tell him that if he does you'll be proud of him. Tell him that he shouldn't be afraid to go. Tell him that you'll think more of him when he goes than when he doesn't.