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Old 10-17-2008, 05:39 AM
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Re: Why is it that people become *****es after a breakup?

To be honest, if you're in a relationship with someone that you weren't friends with before you started the relationship, I see little reason to remain in contact afterwards, since the only reason for your correspondence and meetings to begin with was the relationship itself. You didn't approach them because you wanted to be friends with them, you approached them (or they approached you) to form a relationship. Once that relationship fails, there's nothing left really. I mean you CAN remain civil afterwards but if one party or the other don't see the other as friends, but purely as relationship fodder, then that's pretty much it.

If you were friends with this person prior to the relationship, and then a relationship formed, there's no reason you can't just go back to being friends unless something incredibly terrible happened.

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