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Originally Posted by Aralith
And there is my dilemma. I know all of these things. But they still bother me. That's what bothers me most about my fear is that it is so irrational. I know all of the facts, I know all of the ways to get rid of the fear and I've tried most of them, but nothing has helped me.
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Yeah, that's when it's a phobia.
Here's my advice then:
People will be able to offer you ideas on how to get over it, but really, only you can overcome it. Try every method you can think of (as long as it isn't too extreme). Maybe even go buy yourself a harmless spider and keep it as a pet (play with it often
). Also, be patient with it. I offer this as a solution to a lot because it's true. So many things can be resolved with merely time itself. Oh, and good luck.