Everyone suffers hardships and runs into temptations just about equally, so yes, she might. No person has a perfect life, or one better than another, so it kind of has to balance out.

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"If only we could have talked to you, the hive-queen said in Ender's words. But since it could not be, we ask only this: that you remember us, not as enemies, but as tragic sisters, changed into a foul shape by fate or God or evolution. If we had kissed, it would have been the miracle to make us human in each other's eyes. Instead we killed each other."

-Orson Scott Card, Ender's Game

What is the message portrayed by this?