Merc gets to do it
two times? O_o lucky!
Truthfully I don't care that much about the way I get married. Because I come from a generally christian upbringing my marriage would involve a whole lot of old people sitting in uncomfortable wooden chairs as I walk down the aile of a stuffy church with my women to meet some old guy who rambles on for a while and then get me to say some stuff.
I'll probably do that but I'll also have a 'carefree' wedding, sort of like what e_alert described. I could have it anywhere, preferably outdoors, at any time. Nice and spontaneous

But as long as you <3 your partener, who really cares?